my boyfriend has had problems with his parents for a while now and he was going to go active duty in the military. but now he was offered a place to stay where he could pay rent. the only thing is this is with his hs buddy that he would get into trouble with all the time. i dont want him to do it bc i feel like he woul just be throwing his life away and he wouldnt be able to supprt himself. i dont know what to do i feel like its going to break us apart....any suggestions?
2007-01-23 22:42:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has to make his own decisions.....he wont appreciate you trying to sort out his life..if he throws his life away its his fault...talk to him first but thats it.
2007-01-23 22:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK he's going into active duty soon , and if he moves in with his friend he would get into trouble ? he won't be able to support him self but he can pay rent ? to many contradictions in this ..maybe you don't trust him that may be the issue I think you won't be able to know whats going on all the time ...he's a big boy he can do what he wants
2007-01-24 06:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Speaking from personal experience, I would never suggest letting someone move in to get out of a situation, etc. Never again.
If you want to live together, than thats one thing. Moving in under those circumstances can be akward and could very well cause or contribute to a break up.
2007-01-24 06:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jacob S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but you can do bad on your own. I must say I would want a man that is equal to me and not me supporting him. Your so called boyfriend knows right from wrong and if he were to stay with his friend as a roomate then let him. It sounds to me like you may want to do his motherly duty and you can't. If it breaks the two of you then perhaps it wasn't meant to be.
2007-01-24 06:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jerry S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer to have him come in as long as he promises to take out the garbage and put his clothes in the hamper and put the toilet seat down:o)
Seriously, only move in with someone when you're married and that's because you have to. It's too hard w/o a committment.
2007-01-24 06:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by Loren H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay clear, watch a few episodes of JUDGE JUDY, see what happens in situations like this!
2007-01-24 06:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by yawhosucs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
moving in with a buddy is like giving him permissions to party everyday, believe me, during college days this is what i do. : )
2007-01-24 06:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by saint77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋