she too is in love with me , we both are in the same section and will be together in the same section for 4 more years , being infront of my eyes i am getting very much diturbed and not able to attend my lectures , being in great difficulty pls help me out
2007-01-23 22:40:28 · 8 answers · asked by varun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Concentrate on your studies..but also have a bit of free time concentrating on each other.
2007-01-23 22:44:27 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should know that ur career is more important... that girl can stay always in front of u but ur career wont stop for u... u should make the difference between both... and anyway if u spoil ur future what's the use of being in love... instead i would suggest that u 2 concentrate on ur classes n try to help each other when having problems with lectures... this way u both will progress... take ur studies seriously and work together if u wish... love will still be there for u both.... gd luck
2007-01-23 22:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so look buddy!!! its grt to be in love ....... but u should have the potentiality to make these two things apart... that is when in love u forget bout stiudies when in studies u forget bout love..... ok wait like its almost impossible.... let me divide u into two sections:
1. if u live in hostel then try to make these two things apart as much as u can and dont merge them coz if u dont study in class and even not in hostel then it will be you who will be a loser.... look its like having sugar in one hand and a burger in another and SUPPOSE u like both of them..... wat will u do i guess u will eat one first and then while eating other u will forget the first. Now do one thing merge them both and imagine the test < it turns out to be yucky!! isnt it!> so dont merge LOVE AND STUDIES.. even u should think like this if u dont get a job then her parents may not allow u to marry her>
2. if u live in your own home and if she is also in the same college and in the same year and she is too leavin in her home try to meet her in her home. this time u merge them both how ? look u r not concentrating in ur class room >RITE!..> may be the teacher taught some chapter that day>>> as u reach home u regret about not concentrating in the class. may be u didnt but suppose she did >>>>> so u make a plan for meeting her in her house or yours and u ask her to explain watever the lecturer has taught in the class.. in this way u can both meet more often, have ur love flourish and also keep the same pace in studies>>>> this plan goes out for her too... if she is facing the same problem.
3. but wait there may be one more problem may be ur parents knoe about ur relationship and ask her not to meet u. so u r meetin in college and not in home< if u r in home> well then wat u will do? hmm.. i got a solution for that too utilize some of ur meeting time in studyin time, well studyin not alone but together>>> and clarify ur doubts by discussing...
bY these three steps u may able to overcome ur problem well u will!! but chose wisely frm the three points and u will sucseed>>>>GOD BLESS U.
2007-01-24 02:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by gogo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry 2 say this but it is 4 ur betterment. ur carrier & life is waiting ahead.say goodmorning to them & goodbye 2 ur love 4 few more years. WISH U ALL THE VERY BEST!!!!
2007-01-24 02:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by ...... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!!! Same things happened to me.. Its great if you both meet out of college and go ahead with your studies inside..
Happens to be a great feeling..
2007-01-23 22:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good that uve realised that ur wasting ur time.........u said she likes u, so u may b thinking of getting married or sumthing in future, for that u need to prove urself to ur and her parents, so u need to b succesful in ur career...... so dont neglect ur studies.
if u neglect ur studies evryone vil blame ur reln and ur gul frn.......
so if u realy luv her,make her feel proud about u.
2007-01-24 00:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry varun only God can help u, anyway enjoy ur love IN FRONT OF UR EYES...
2007-01-23 23:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to break up if u wanna ur career otherwise u and i also wat will happen, one day she will leave you, b'coz u will be failure in life, no studies den no job.
so before she leave u, u leave her and concentrate on studies and den u will 1000's of gals....
i knw u won't follow my advice, its up to u sick lover
2007-01-23 22:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by Sahil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋