2007-01-23 22:40:06 · 19 answers · asked by Aerosoft 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Bleeding? Please. The school sysyetms must be crap now if they are teaching you thats how to tell a virgin in health class.
A little health lesson for you, bleeding is caused by the breaking of the hyman. The hyman can be broken well before sexual intercourse in many different ways. This is not a reliable tool to guage if you are marrying a virgin or not.
I wouldnt consider looking at her expression a good tool either, penises come in all different sizes, a bigger penis might make her grimmace.
As another posted stated above, there is no way to tell for sure.
2007-01-24 00:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its true! You really CANT tell. Not all woman bleed, not all woman find it painful and even women who aren't virgins can bleed and can find it painful no matter how many times shes had sex in the past. It sucks but its true. All you can do is go by what she says and it you re still in doubt all you can do is see what type of reputation she has and go with your instincts. I know many females who are friends of mine that have lied to men claiming to be virgins and they aren't. You cant even go by how tight or how loose a woman's "part" is because that doesn't mean anything either. If its that big a of deal to you i say try and get acquainted with people she knows and see what you hear but don't go around asking cuz that's just going to create problems. If that doesn't work...I guess only time will tell because the truth does come to light eventually and the only bad thing with that is timing because that's a matter of waiting and not knowing.
hope this helped for something
2007-01-24 00:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup!!! I'm serious. But are you. Why are you so interested in knowing whether the girl is have sex for the first time or not? How does she know that you never had sex before?
Grow up man... What if there's a girl down there perfectly made for you and loves you a lot. But she made some silly mistakes in her life earlier nad had sex with someone. Would that deprive her love for you? Or would that affect your mental peace when you are with her? If this is the case that you don't love the girl, you just love her body.
And if you wanna have sex with girl just for fun... again why would it matter whther she's having sex for the first time or not. What matters is that she's allowing you in....
:-)
2007-01-24 00:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, asking the girl...because there does not exist any clear evidence that shows if a girl is virgin or not.
There are many old house wives tales about virginity, but it´s got nothing to do with reality.
There are still people who do believe that a girl has to "bleed" during her first sexual contact. But this is absolute nonsense.
Most of the girls do not bleed.
So all you can do is ask the girl and have faith in what she´s telling you.
Anyway, honestly speaking, virginity should not be important at all, because what really counts in a relation ship is trust, love, affection, understanding....
2007-01-23 23:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anita P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant,,,,all you have is trust,,trust that she is telling you the truth. some women who have had and have been having sex for a long time can still be very 'quiet' in bed and some who have never had sex before can suddenly turn into animals between the sheets,,being a virgin just means they have never experienced sex in the physical way but mentally,,they could have been all around the bedroom and have all kinds of fantasies and as soon as the opportunity is right for them they jump on you like someone possessed.
2007-01-23 22:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by lex 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Scientifically there is no way at all. It is only her nature and your belief and trust on her can decide whether she is a virgin or not. At the same time, I wish and hope you are also a true bachelor.
2007-01-24 03:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by sharma p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women bleed, not all are shy to experience it but it does hurt, so look at her expressions when she's not looking at you. That way she won't be faking. You'll see the true feelings. If you are trusting between one another just ask.
2007-01-23 23:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by leilis4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust her. and if she seems to be uncomfortable/in pain, that's usually a pretty good indication, too.
bleeding when the hymen breaks used to be a good indication but isn't really any more. many girls play sports now and the hymen can break that way or even with tampons.
2007-01-24 02:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by dixiegirl687 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of women can lie and fake it. you can't tell if its her first time... especially since most women don't bleed when they first lose it anyway. it's all about trust... whether you trust her word or not. :)
2007-01-23 22:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You can only guess. Not all women bleed the first time and not all women are shy either.
2007-01-23 22:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋