btw, I'm in a long distant 'relationship' with him
2007-01-23 22:15:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and also, he calls me every 3/4 days, I don't mind, but some peeps think that could be a sign.
2007-01-23 22:22:58 · update #1
you only see him when he wants sex...he doesn't spend much time with you and take you out places.
2007-01-23 22:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's never really that simple. Things always get mixed up. You usually end up understanding relationships only years after they're over. One way to tell his interest in you is mostly sexual is that he doesn't really seem interested in anything you have to say - that would indicate he doesn't find you that interesting as a person.
I think the real question should be whether you feel fulfilled by this relationship or not, though. If he's remaining faithful, it's kind of normal sex impulses seem urgent when you do meet after a long time. But what about the in-between time? Does he bother e-mailing? Calling? What do you talk about in bed after you're done?
2007-01-24 06:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell that if your in a long distance relationship because when you see each other you do it like rabbits because you miss each other.
So, I would say maybe your both using each other for sex??? unless you have a plan of more (move in, or he move with you, marriage etc) and he either agrees or doesn't but bottom line is just have fun, until you BOTH have mode more of a commitment to move closer and go to the next level, you night as well say your both using each other for everything and committed to nothing..
2007-01-24 06:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by yawhosucs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He asks you for sex.
2. He makes no marriage proposal.
3. He chooses a long distance relationship.
4. He asks for sex again.
5. Refer to #'s 1-4.
2007-01-24 06:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by moose on the loose 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a long distance relationship with him, you obviously don't see eachother very much. Notice when you are together - although maybe rarely - if all he is interested in is having sex with you. Does he ask your opinion on things? Does he like to do things for your sake, like shopping or other girl stuff?
If you are in regular contact in this long distance relationship and not seeing anyone else, he is probably serious about you...
2007-01-24 06:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if its long distance thing i am guess it involves cam phone and chat??? anyway.. look if he is only after sex... then he will not like the fact that you tell him... that you are going through emotion changes and do nto feel like doing anything for about 10 days or so... if he like u he stick around.. if he pestures u for sex.. u have ur answers....
and also list the last conversation u had where u did not have sex or related matters... just a plain conversation... if u struggle with this answer then that is also a good sign
2007-01-24 06:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how can he just use you for sex if you aren't even really "together" at the moment. I'm in a long distance relationship and my fiance is 4 thousand miles away. It'd be a little difficult for him to use me for sex. But if that's all you two do when you're together, then he probably is.
2007-01-24 06:19:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when he doesn't call to ask you to do things other than sex
and you could just be his buddy to have sex whenever he's in town. but he doesn't want to take it any further for now.
plus another sign could be that he doesn't do anything but have sex with you (like, he doesn't take you out to dinner first at least!)
2007-01-24 06:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by zengie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best signs are what he does to you when you meet. Are you Sore down there are you happy down there are you requiring more down there if you are and he wants more maybe he is using you for sex or is it you who is using him .
2007-01-24 06:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
distant relationship and meeting for sex??
i guess you already know the answer.
if the distance remains "long" maybe sex is all you will need from him.
2007-01-24 06:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by alexrombuc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whenever he does see you, he doesn't want to take you out, he just wants to stay home and get busy.
He doesn't want to introduce you to his friends or family and may never mention them to you or you to them.
He doesn't care about your feeling...only about feeling you up when you interact (if he is only sending you dirty e-mails or IM's or video cams but not asking you how your day went).
They don't ever want you to call them or contact them and they will only contact you when it is convenient for them to do so.
2007-01-24 06:23:06 · answer #11 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋