My girlfriend and i have been together for 5-6 months, and everthing started off great. But now she hardly even looks at me and she doesn't talk to me that much either. She doesn't do all the things she used to do. Please help me to know whats going on?! Also i have been having dreams about her ex and just the other nite i had a dreams that she was cheating on me/ when i told her, she didn't say anything about it. She just asked me who thats it! I don't know if that means anyting or not. I just want everything to get better. please help me out.
2007-01-23 22:08:54 · 10 answers · asked by K.M. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she must be bored with you...dump her before she does it to you and find a girl that wont cheat on you like her.
2007-01-23 22:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to put wicked thoughts into your head but my wife of 10 yrs suddenly acted the same and I too had dreams of her cheating. It wasn't too much longer she seperated from me because I was too insecure and over-reacting yet 3-months later she confessed to having an affair for a year prior. I'm telling you a person has a sixth sense about knowing if a partner is faithful or not. That pit in your stomach could be telling you to wake up and smell the coffee.
2007-01-23 22:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by STK FLKR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your suspicion and anticipation is getting the better, or worse of u. Ok, it started great, then U are the problem. U are not okay, the problem lies only with u. U are only pointing your finger at her and heaping charge after charge on her. Even your dreams are suspicious. If u were in her shoes, would'nt u run away from a person like u, only being suspicious and making allegations.
2007-01-23 22:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should have a serious discussion with her without being rude or harsh, this will help her reveal to you what the matter really is... and don`t talk to her when you`re under pressure or frustrated because this can aggravate the situation... Calm down and talk with her about what you feel....
2007-01-23 22:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go. once crossed to the "dark side" it will never be the same. 6 month is not enough to try to "save" this. let her go. you don't need this **** in your life. get on with it. it will hurt for a bit, but after you will be with a new one, you will not think about it anymore. it happens to everyone. you live once, its not worth the aggravation.
2007-01-23 22:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by mouse1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man sit her down look her in the eyes and tell her this behaviour is not on,,... if she explaines herself then fine is she does not.. thne u break up... simply and camly thne walk away... its hard but has to be done...
2007-01-23 22:15:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel, maybe she's lost interest in you. If this is the case then move on.
2007-01-23 22:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust your inner voice. She is cheating.
2007-01-23 22:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dump her. You've hit it. Now quit it, and move on.
2007-01-23 22:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I vote "Cheater". She won't be your last, either. Listen to your Heart. it won't lie.
2007-01-23 22:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋