Ive just went out on a date with a girl who is very good looking and Im really into her. However I think Im falling for her. This has happened before but usually they end up cancelling. She actually went out with me which is good. We ended the date with the idea that a second date was in the cards but I dont know long I should hold until I call her again. Sometimes I feel like I give my heart too quickly and will end up getting hurt. Sometimes it seems like one small insignificant slip and everything will be ruined
In addition, she was engaged to this guy but he died in Iraq doing his duty. I feel this is a hard thing to live up to.
Tell me what I can do. Tell to stop worrying. reassure me or dont. Just something
2007-01-23 21:39:17 · 8 answers · asked by Gutierrez J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don´t wait too long! You should call her tomorrow. If I was her, I would like that. You don´t need to ask her immediately, when will be the next date, let her ask you that. That way you can be sure she wants to spend more time with you. Maybe it will take time for that, but I think after what she is been through, that is the best way to do. But I am sure she wants a friend to talk to! Be her friend first of all.
2007-01-23 22:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by thea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out, give it a week or so and call her. Don't worry about living up to someone else, you can only be yourself anyway. Be cautious about falling to fast, if you like the girl you don't want to scare her away. She will probably not ever forget the other guy but she either has or will realize that her life needs to go on. IF you make a slip and everything is ruined then it wasn't very strong in the first place. We are all human and we all know it. Its odd to me that we worry so much about being the perfect person in another persons eyes. We hope they don't notice our shortcomings or mistakes and we try so hard not make mistakes but you know what the other person is in the same boat.
2007-01-23 21:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn dude. Relax.
You worry too much. give her a call in two or three days to talk.
If it sounds okay, ask her for another date or wait a week.
Don't try to live up to that guy. Just be yourself.
You are coming off as desperate, man, really. And it's true, one small slip, and it's done. And it doesn't matter, cause there are billions of women on the planet.
So wake up, relax, and be a man about it. It's just life, it is just a date. It's nothing. Really.
It's a numbers game. There is no one perfect girl. as you get older, you'll realize this. Date dozens of girls, take nothing serious from it, and you'll meet the one that fits you.
Even then it is hard. Good luck.
2007-01-23 21:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok forget alll of the above and do what you think you should do nobody else can tell you if you want to call her now call her now and say that you really enjoyed yourself the other nite and ask her if she would like to go out again yeah no and hey you have met a new person your going to have all these feelings all over the place but dont let them get the better of you k and hey anthin just mail me. and good luck ya dont need it anyway
2007-01-23 21:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Blonde_o2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the best advice i can give anyone. You need to go with your heart...oh yeah if you wait too long to call her then someone else will get her and you will end up with nothing...so like i said just go with your heart
2007-01-23 21:47:06 · answer #5 · answered by kika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it hard thing living up to no disrespect to that guy but only way to live up to it is by dying and u dont relaly wnat to do that now do you??
giving ur heart easily can be very painful... but look all u need to remember is that she chose you!! so there must be something NON INSIGNIFICANT about you right? focus on the glass half full attitude...
2007-01-23 21:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer problem sweetie...you would be fantastic. loss of sleep would be a huge concern as quickly as you're farther alongside so do no longer problem approximately one night:) the only situation you're in all risk going to have is making it by using your day and not applying a snooze now.
2016-12-12 19:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is a big healer.
2007-01-23 22:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋