I hav a boy friend whom i know from 2 and half years . we did our final project together in a college. we use to share everthing and we are really a good friends together . but finally without knowiing to eachother we bcame very close to each other . then i think i am in love with him and expected the same from him , so i proposed him last year and he said he want to think abt this and he was in dialama.. and them whn days went on.. we r same as b4 and bcame more and more close to each other. but still he use to say that he is in dialama . finally i asked him very seriouslly then he said no to me . but as we r good friends and don't want to spoil my relationship . i am still talking with him as a good friend . but still he and myslef won't behave as friends now and then we are really very close and i mean we are in love very deeply .but i don't understand y he is not willing to express his love he told me that he likes me very very much but i don't think so how can i know that he loves
2007-01-23 21:28:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If all that you say is true, then simply trust in what you have, and let it be. You sound as if you are happy with how it is now, and so it's not as if you would be suffering to simply accept the relationship as it is for now. It may well be that he would like to have the honor of proposing when he is ready to.
2007-01-23 21:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Theresa A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he is in love with you or has very deep feelings. don't be too pushy with the marriage scene just yet. If he is in a delemma than try talking to him about it to see if you can help him in some way. If he won't talk to you about it then all you can do is be there for him.
In the mean time try your hardest not to be more than good friends, it'll be hard be he will only get more confused. A good friend is always there for the other person.
Good luck
2007-01-24 05:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by Donna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its no use ricking what a good relationship you have to make it romantic. tell him that you still want to be great friends, and that if he starts to fell something more for you, you will be open to him coming to you. and that if theres a reason that he feels unable to be romantically involved w/ you, that he can talk 2 you about it if he wants. but dont pressure him! hopt it helps. remember dont ruin what great thing you have. you may regret it later.
2007-01-24 05:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by Da Kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes definitely he has feelings for you, but don't push him into something give him time to think it trough! Just relax and enjoy the moments you have with him!!
2007-01-24 05:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not yours yet! Leave him alone!
2007-01-24 05:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by memonikos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋