Why is that nice guys are always ignored by girls?
How true is that 'nice guys finish last'?
marriage - nice guy
fling - bad guy
is it?
2007-01-23 21:25:53 · 20 answers · asked by Sandeep R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nice guys are ignored by girls because we lack confidence and are ashamed of our sexuality. When we approach them, all these negative thoughts come to mind and we appear as thought we lack self-esteem or are weird. We respect and adore women too much to express how we truly feel. We feel that we don't deserve them and they are too good for us. Bad boys don't have these hang ups. They never apologize for their desires, never worry about consequences, show no fear in talking to women, always confident and in control.
As for the dumbass women here who say nice guys are ugly, yeah right. None of the nice guys I know are ugly or weird. They are just painfully shy. I have seen perfect 10s (women) put out to butt-ugly PUAs on their first encounter. Yes, women do end up marring the nice guy after being repeatedly heart broken by bad boys; when they finally learn from their mistakes and become mature.
2007-01-27 05:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by demondesolator 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're probably looking for the wrong types of ladies. The types that would go for bad guys. And besides, I don't think nice guys finish last, just weak guys. Nice guys can be strong too.
2016-05-24 03:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a nice guy is the pride of every girl...
but unfortunately the glitter comes first, and like how a dragon fly is attracted towards the flame, the girls get attracted to the flashy style of the bad guys. Later they weep, why did i not look at the good guy sitting on the bench with a book, rather than fell into the arms of the bad guy who came on a roaring bike with a cigratte in his hand.........
but trust me, what lasts is being nice....for bad is momentary, but good is perpetual............ be nice and u will be happy all ur life..be bad and u will be happy only till ur youth lasts.
all the best
2007-01-23 21:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by smile2u2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,I am a girl and that's untrue for me.Yes,I agree it makes u feel aroused to flirt a little with bad guys 'cos they make you feel good,I mean they appreciate all the care u take of ur body and they look at u damn lovingly.But I as a girl will always prefer a 'nice guy' because finally some day girls get irritated of bad guys.they can be free in front of a nice guy.they can be themselves.They don't need 2 pretend
I have come across many nice and bad guys in my life.And trust me 'bad guys finish last'.So,if u r a nice guy,b proud of that fact.AND even if then no girl likes u...well they r simply stupid.
BTW,M ALWAYS THERE IF U NEED COMPANY.LOL,KIDDIN'!
2007-01-23 21:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Meghana Singh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a nice guy. I don't always get the girl. Sometimes i don't want the girl. Stop whining that is very unattractive. If 1 turns you down don't let it bother you. Go get another. There's millions out there. Don't be shy. Talk to all that will. I guarantee you' You will get 1. Be confidant and show it. But don't be cocky. That's a turnoff.
2007-01-23 21:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it basically depends on the type of the girl.... Generally Girls temporarily get attracted to Bad guys but sooner or later they get back to nice guys..
Now there's a very thin line between a nice guy and what i call a "doormat" guy....
A nice guy is a guy who respects women. He is caring and understanding, but is at the same time confident.. A nice guy is never ready to compromise his values, principles and ethics for anyone, not even a girl.. A nice guy has got a clear mind set and is not a confused one. He's got a attractive personality and is good to be with.. A nice guy is matured and knows clearly what he's up to
A doormat guy is a guy who's ready to even lick the girl's 'A S S' to get her attracted to him.. He's totally confused and he doesn't have anything called values or ethics in him.. He lacks confidence and is not firm in his decisions. he doesn't respect women and is immature..
Doormat guys r the kind of guys who r used like doormats by girls.. Girls stamp on them, wipe all their dirt on him and finally leave him for someone else... Whereas a Nice guy is someone a girl loves to be with. she respects him and is committed to him..
2007-01-26 22:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every single goddamn time a guy says: "nice guys finish last" i get so angry.
i mean srsly all girls dream of falling in love with a nice guy. we all do.
if guys think this is true they might start being rude to girls and how do tou think that makes us feel?
we want to be told that we are beautiful. we want to be told thay we are perfect the way we are. we want guys to show that they respect us and sayin "nice guys finish last" is disrespectful. its plainly guys making assumptions based on personal experience.
tell a girl that shes beautiful and she'll fall in love with you like that.
not manu guys care to tell us that we mean something.
2014-07-01 02:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true.
I have had bad guys before and they suck.
Currently with a nice guy. I think nice guys are usually shy to apprroach girls and thats why whereas bad guys will hit on anything with legs! My bf is very very shy and i think it is soooo cute!
After all the idiots i have been with over the years i just wanted a nice guy who treated me with respect. How old are you? It takes women time to realise they just want a nice guy. I am 20 and only realised just rcently.
Just lucky i got a nice guy.
2007-01-23 21:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The bad guys may be good for a fling but I sure don't want to keep them around for long. They're usually only good for a quick romp at best. The good guy is the one I want sharing my day to day life, my love and my friendship. For the most part you know that the good guy is there for you and not just sex.
2007-01-23 21:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by cookiefactory4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello nice guy.... :o)
I don't think that you are ignored as much as not trusted. More than likely most of the time girls don't know how to handle someone being nice....
But hang in there & keep being nice, as one day the right one will find you... & she will be one lucky girl....
:o)
2007-01-23 21:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by Linda Jo V 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋