Should I just give up. I just hope that she doesn't hate me that's all.
2007-01-23 21:17:26 · 15 answers · asked by Doclkk 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends how things ended between the two of you. If things ended badly and you were the one that ended things well you could see why she might not want to speak to you. However if she ended things maybe she just needs more time.
If I were you I'd give it a few more weeks and then send her a text or email just asking if she is okay. Hopefully you will hear back from her, but if you don't it would be better to leave things as they are. If she has a birthday coming up you could send her a card, but I think that the best thing you could do especially if you don't hear from her would be to leave things as they are. Time is a great healing and you should leave things in her court if she wants to contact you she will, if not...well there's your answer
2007-01-23 21:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over means everything is over.Obviously she is not putting any effort to be your friend,so why are you?Think about why you are trying so hard,is it really because you don't want her to hate you?Or do you really miss her.Try to just let it go.When she hangs up that means stop calling and it isn't making her want you back.It's only building her ego and making her think your sprung(rapped around her finger).Although every girl likes a challenge,so act like you don't even care and she'll be the one trying not you. And then your in control and you can be the one hanging up.
2007-01-24 05:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by becca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if she liked you she wouldn't keep hanging up. A few times maybe, but not forever. Girls lose interest when guys keep pursuing them. Try to stop calling her and she if the tables are turned. So why can't you get a nice girl. What have you done to her, to make you wonder if she hates you?
2007-01-24 05:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well read your letter again--what in the world is your issue here??? She doesn't want to talk---get a grip and a clue--move on--too late to wonder or care what she is thinking---she probably thinks your a nut for calling and calling. Now be a nice guy and find a nice girl---have some fun and enjoy your life.
2007-01-24 05:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to say as you don't say why you broke up, as you say she may hate you so it seems like you made the first move in breaking up? stop calling, you have tried your best, maybe write a note explainig how you feel, you obviously have a concious, leave her be, she may still be feelig upset and if it is meant to be she will come round and get in touch with you.Good luck
2007-01-24 05:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to talk to her if she is trying to move might make you feel better, but it is only opening a wound. You need to leave her alone.
If it ended badly, even if you want to apologize, she is not ready to hear it...if and or when she is, may try to contact you. If not, you have already made an effort and that is enough.
2007-01-24 05:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up and move on. Hello, is anybody home? Once you graduate the 8th grade you'll understand.
2007-01-24 06:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What r u still doing bothering yo ex,give her some space,she's yo ex,its over,done away with.if she cared she would have called u.
2007-01-24 05:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to let this one go. If she hangs up it's because she doesn't want to talk to you. She's obviously hurt and/or angry.
2007-01-24 05:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She;s your EX...move on with your life and let her do the same
2007-01-24 05:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋