I know i want to break up with my girl and im pretty sure what to say once i get the ball rolling. But when i call her to say we should get together, what do i say? Do i say that we need to talk, which'll leave her anxious till i see her.... or what do i say when setting up a time to tell her????? thanks
2007-01-23 21:11:23 · 13 answers · asked by Da Kid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it would be courteous to give her some warning thought it might be better if it was a bit cryptic. You don't want her coming to meet you thinking everything is fine and your gonna hang out. That will lessen the likely hood of you going through with it.
2007-01-23 21:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by Another۞Human 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see her, just sit her down and say that we need to talk and then tell her that you don't think that things are working out between the two of you and then tell her the reasons.
Its better that you do it sooner rather than later and you never know she also could be feeling the same way. But it's better to do it now especially if you are not happy
2007-01-24 05:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you wish you had better news, but after comparing her body and sexual apetite to another girl you've been seeing, you realize that you two aren't compatible. It's been fun, but this other girl wants to move in together and she's crazy about you and loves to give you head whenever you like...sorry. That ought to do it!
2007-01-24 05:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her frankly what ever you want????you said you are very clear to end with this relation then just end it. call her and say say that you gotta discuss something really important with her............. because the much time you take to disclose your feelings to her.the more she will get hurted. so atleast think about her also.you should see both the faces of the coin............and don't delay. take care
2007-01-24 05:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you want to meet up...don't suggest there is something to worry about because otherwise she will be all nervous etc! Try not to hurt her!
2007-01-24 05:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by Queenie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't say be nice,, cuz it is impossible to say it in a nice way,,
just meet her , (DON'T SLEEP WITH HER)
and tell her that she is not right for you and explain,,try not to hurt her alot,,
i've been there and it really hurt and sucks,,,
2007-01-24 05:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how u fell and say to her she not the right one for u
2007-01-24 05:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by Angelina H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest but be nice about it damnit
i guess just be like "hey can i come over today?" and take it from there. she probably already knows you're going to break up with her so just be calm..the important thing is to stay calm.
2007-01-24 05:17:56 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥♫ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you have been doing some thinking and would like to talk with her
2007-01-24 05:21:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her its not workin out very well and u think u should see other people
2007-01-24 05:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by Nate Dogg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋