i am suffering from 10 yrs my husband also trying his level best we have 3 yrs son he also suffering with us but our problems not stopping we have financial problem because of this physically & maintaly also not fit please help & guide me pls.
2007-01-23 21:08:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Dear madam, I am really sorry to learn your problem. Unfortunately at least half of our population are having similar situation for one thing or other. We all need lot of money but resources are limited. And there is no short cut way to have sufficient money. We need to find out opportunities and encash them. We need to spend with lot of judgement. I would have been very happy if I was in a position to offer you any immediate solution. Are you doing anything at present ? If not you may try to look for some work. If you never gone out to do job in offices you may look for small level self employment opportunities. You may start business of Home food delivery, Selling of Cosmetics (AVON or similar),.
2007-01-23 21:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
see first start searching 4 the job first and plz stop crying u can do it and support ur husband 2 and tel him we can do it and god will help us
dear i don't know ur physical problem
but mentally be positive and have faith in your self
just think what u can do ur best can u take tuition's at home or can u go some where to teach. u know stitching, go a head u will find some job.
just remember no job is small when w want to earn
but pls stop crying and be more stronger this will make your life partner more stronger
so best of luck u can do it i hav faith on u if u hav faith on us and ask this Que than go and start and show this world that from narrow paths also u can cross
remember every dark cloud has a golden line
2007-01-24 08:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by priya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no harm in accepting charity if you are in a place where the government gives a damn about the citizens.
There are no quick ways around it.
I wonder if you have friends who can help you tide the bad times.
Compared to increasing income it is EASIER to cut down costs.
Just try to live with fewer needs even if you are on the bare minimum.
I dont believe in all those theories of "make yourself rich" but I believe that there is a God that listens. So go pray to God to help you.
2007-01-24 05:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by muscle_horse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pl try to reduce your standard of living first for the time being.
pl stop fallowing gender based work culture.
you and your husbend should work/cook -with out any ego/feelings.pl stop producing children.no more kids.pl stop visiting relatives and dont tell about your problems to them.
pl go for some credit after estimating your capacity to pay the.
be bold . time will solve your problems.
2007-01-24 08:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
To save money, put some budget for your family. Think what are need for your son and your both expenses. If you buy some stuffs beyond the packet money of your budget, you can cut going out to eat. Try not to buy clothes for you both unless it is needed. For your son, you sure need to buy it. If you cut all these unwanted things, which seems to be small. But it gives you to save money for a month. Sure this will go in saving. You have to have control on your spending.
So put budget for all, electric, gas,garbage, rental or house loan, grocery for a month, car gas, . so buying clothes and eating out, going for tour or buying decorative things for house, keep all these in a pockect money and try to control your packet money.You can save in your both expenses,if your packet money is over for that month, cut others and never try to overcome your budget for that month.
But for your son, you need to buy as he grows, So expenses on your son is exceptional. But still calulate his expenses for a month and try to maintain that.
Meanwhile, if you can work and help the family. Try to search for a job.
2007-01-25 01:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI
I DONT KNOW HOW TO SOLVE SUCH PROBLEMS BUT IFEEL
THAT PLEASE SEND YOUR SON TO EITHER YOUR PARENTS OR YOUR HUSBANDS PARENTS WHO EVER ARE ALWAYS STABLE FINANCIALLY AND JUST TRY TO KEEP HIM SMILING TILL HE DOESNT RECOGNISE ANY PROBLEMS BECAUSE IT EFFECTS MORE ON HIS FUTURE
MY ONLY SUGGETION FOR YOUR RECOVERY OF FINANCIAL BACKGROUND IS IF YOU ARE NOT WORKING WORK THATS IT BYE
2007-01-25 18:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU CAN GET HELP BY UR PARENTS,RELATIVES OR FRIENDS,I DONT KNOW ABT THE REASON OF UR FINANCIAL CRISIS.CAN U TELL ME MORE?
2007-01-24 05:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by ROSERAJA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋