im sleeping with my flatmates boyfriend, she works crazy hours so we are often left in the apartment by ourselves. Everyday we have sex, sometimes we have sex when she is asleep in her room and we are having sex on the couch in the sitting room. Do you think that we can continue to get away with this, how would anyone find out, i've told nobody (but ye of course) and he hasnt told any either.
2007-01-23 21:02:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This so is true (unfortunately, its getting way out of control, they fight all the time, and we only seem happy when we are together until she gets home and its like she has ruined everything) ****** up I know
2007-01-23 21:12:52 · update #1
Wellllll, if you carry on shagging on the sofa while shes in the next room you have to admit to yourself that its pretty risque!
Cool it down, and discuss where your priorities lie. This friend must mean something to you, because you live together. Think about who you would prefer to be with, and whether this guy is worth losing your flatmate over.
You can always break it off before she finds out, but when she does find out (and eventually she will because the truth always finds a way of coming out...believe me) shes going to be crushed.
2007-01-23 21:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by Stud_Muffin_Gra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this story is true and I kind of doubt it---I would say that you two are not the nicest people around. I think you deserve each other-and if she finds out, you cant complain about the reaction she will have. I can see the 2 of you standing there asking for some understanding---you might get an ashtray to the head. You show no integrity or respect, for yourselves or your friend. Why not just go with each other and avoid the low life style of living you have now--you seem to be made for one another. Watch your back--you may be victims of a pissed off friend--real soon.
2007-01-23 21:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey if you don't have any relationship? or you have or he like you he Say's you he marriage with you in the future . Or just want sex every night and go. its not a life i think. my near you don't do sex more this kind of person and see some one who really like you and totally loyal with you, you see at your future and decided what you can you. This guy is only time passed .
Be bold good luck
bye
2007-01-23 21:34:02 · answer #3 · answered by Heaven 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you keep it up somebody is going to get caught. Even if somebody wants to gt it off their conscience. Watch the Jerry Springer show sometimes, or Maury Povich.
2007-01-23 21:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find ur own man or take him knowing that u r getting into the circle she is in now what will happen u guys will getting into it over something stupid and she will find out so just go find urself someone coz u gonna end up in lots of drama
2007-01-23 21:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say continue the fun until you do get caught. Part of the fun is the risk of getting caught.
2007-01-23 21:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by searay092003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got away with it. as long as you both never tell anyone and she doesn't walk in. your golden. I was actually sleeping with my girlfriend's flatmate.
2007-01-23 21:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by Another۞Human 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may get away with it, just as long as you stop doing it when she is around.
Don’t fall in love with him, because it’s bound to be a bad relationship with no trust
2007-01-23 21:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by blondedarkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if they have sex when you're at work or asleep in your room. Maybe you don't sleep.....
2007-01-23 21:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by memem 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
imagine this, ahh yes, ahh yes baby, yes yes yes yes haaahhh, I am coming, I am coming I am coming I am coming, and then bang, she is standing on top of you guys, hahahahah, lol. that would be one way of getting caught,,
2007-01-23 21:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋