qualities/attributes to look for in wife.....help plz....?

Question

hi guys, need help on this plz.

my parents are taking me to see a girl this sunday ...... i am very confused as to what to look for in a girl.......

had virtually no relationship in my life so don't know what to expect and what to ask in these kind of situations so if you can help that will be highly appreciated.......

what sort of questions to ask the girl and what sort of things/qualities i should be looking to get a perfect match for me.....

thanks

Answer 1

if you need help in this department then you are not ready. this is absolutely up to you as to what kind of girl you would want to spend the rest of your life with, no one can tell you.

Answer 2

Hmmm . . . you should just chit-chat with her for now and not worry about what to ask -- the things you need to know about what you're looking for cannot be found out by asking. Now, then, you should try to understand if the girl is generous, flexible, and trustworthy. This takes time to find out, so don't worry if you can't tell right off. You should wait about two years before marrying any girl. Also, you can tell if you like her body too. I mean, I know you don't want to be with a beast or anything. But that part should go without saying. Her personality is more important overall. Consider the way she treats you. Good night!

Answer 3

First i would ask myself Do i think i would want to look at this girl forever. If you do that's good if not shes not the one. Secondly I would ask her questions to get to know her like where she born, what does she like to do, if you have things in common that's good.take interest in what she likes and tell her the things that you have in common ask her if maybe you could take her hiking, skating, dancing, bowling etc just whatever you have in common. that will give you a chance to get to know her a little better.once you've done some things together and hang out for awhile it will be easy to decide if you would like to further the relationship beyond friends. time reveals all things. don't rush things just be a friend and see how it works out . good luck.good quality's are honesty, faithfulness ask her if she has cheated on boyfriends before if so get a explanation on why ? its usually not a good thing . if she decides not to be with someone she should have told the guy. and make sure she believes in the same things you do.you want someone who hasn't been too promiscuous . you know aids is out there i hate it if you got it on your wedding night.

Answer 4

Wow, I didn't think arranged marriages still happened. Poor you.

If you're chosing a girl to marry, make sure that she's a kind and nice person. She should also have a good sense of humour. If you chose somebody with a kind disposition it will make it easier for you both to get along with each other.

She's probably feeling as awkward about this meeting as you are. Remember to smile at her when you first meet as a smile usually helps to put a person at ease. And don't worry about what you should talk about. If she's the right girl, conversation should eventually flow naturally.

I wish you luck.

Answer 5

Eyes! "Color of the skin makes no significance than the color of the eyes"

Well, you are seeing a girl this Sunday and expecting her to be so & so....you answer this question to yourself. Beware, same way she would also expect you to be so & so...are you ready?.

As far as I am concerned I would look for:
a) Good sense of humour
b) Simplicity
c) Truthfulness
d) Loving in nature
e) Caring

If you get an opportunity to spend few minutes with her seperately you can ask her to tell something about herself(make sure you allow her to be v.confortable & you too!). Do not ask questions related to her external look.

Good Luck! be yourself.

Answer 6

well i don't think we can tell you what to look for in a wife but why don;t you think about it
do you want your wife to be in the working class
or at home
do you like to have control if so then you want a at home wife
do you want a 50/50 thing then she needs to be working
how far is your level of education do you want her to be with you or you don't mind
you need to think about it cause if you listen to us you will not have the wife you want it will be the one we want

just see if she can make you laught cause that is a start

Answer 7

Ask her about her interests ? hobbies ?? be yourself regardless what as it will be a life time commitment dudeeeeeeeeeeee...

so u should be yourself and take it easy dont get into sexual conversations the first time u meet ..

you should look for a good looking humble apreciative and understanding..

Answer 8

only you can know what you want in a mate. think of all the things you like. a person you want to spend time with will have similar interests. if you like going to clubs and she stays at home every weekend, then odds are you wouldn't be happy. just talk with her. if the two of you click, you will know

Answer 9

Theres never a perfect match..

Answer 10

sorry gave a long answer, and got logged out! time for dinner so may be later