ok so me and this guy have been friends for at least a year and have both liked eachother for about...6 months and im not allowed to have a bf yet but we both realllyyy like eachother should i go out with him and not tell my parents or is it worth it??
pleeaseee hellpp meeeeeee.
2007-01-23 19:45:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 14 and they sed i cant have a bf till im 15...
2007-01-23 20:05:09 · update #1
never be dishonest to your parents,....now go to your room and think about it for awhile and don't come out until your attitude changes!!!!!
2007-01-23 20:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by dannydolphin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going out with him may be a great idea at first but you need to keep in mind that you are both attracted to each other, what if the unthinkable happens and you end up pregnant? Not only will you have decieved your parents into thinking that you weren't going out with him but you will also have the shame of going around looking like a huge beach ball.
2007-01-23 19:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by stiletto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not allowed to have a boyfriend yet then you should do what your parents say,and if that boy really likes you he will respect your parents wishes and wait until they let you start dating why make problems for yourself.and please don't go out with out telling your parents because anything could happen and besides when you do wrong your parents always find out,take it from someone who knows.
2007-01-23 19:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by carolstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the same thing happened to me
i ended up going out with the guy
after like a month i decided to tell my mom about him..she was pretty cool about it and so was my dad
now i dont have to feel guilty about not telling them about him
me n my bf have been together for almost 4 months
2007-01-23 19:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you. and by what age are you suppose to have a bf.
well since a year havent you guys been out anywhere..like to a movie or coffee?. if you really like this guy and you think that you are not betraying your parents then you can go ahead. well i would say it would be worth it spending time with the one you like to spend.
2007-01-23 19:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how much do your parents let you do with him as a friend? I ask, because if your not allowed to do much with guy friends its going to be hard to spend anytime with him if your not allowed to have a bf.
2007-01-23 19:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Father knows best, and Mother knows best. Don't go out with him. Respect your parents wishes. You'll have your time to be with him, not until later. Accept this...it's best for you. Never go against your parent's wishes. They know from experience. You should focus on school anyway.
2007-01-23 19:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your life and if you think dealing with your parents' bull is worth it go for it just dont have sex but the real question is do you want to risk the friendship?
2007-01-23 19:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sex until after your 12 years old, but if youroolder than that id say go for it, they're just jealous that tehy didnt loose their virginty when they were 13.
2007-01-23 19:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you've been friends for one year, u can go out with him
Please tell Ur parent about it .
2007-01-23 20:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by OLIVIA D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋