I need some advice from any one who is in a relationship
i've been seeing this guy for a long time now, we have done a few things like dry s-x and he has given me oral s-x, it twas amazing, he's the first guy that i done anything with i mean sexually, but i now we are having a few problems, he has become so distant from me which is scary cos we haven't been like that, when we do see each other which is not often we get physical like touching and so on, the other time when i met him i had my period so we could do much, he started getting more distant, i dont know what to do somedays he is so affectionate and other days as cold as ice.I really really love him and planned to spend the rest of my life with him but i scared that he has now found someone elsewhat should i do
2007-01-23 19:40:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is really Important to me
2007-01-23 19:48:26 · update #1
girl this is gonna hurt , but this guy does not love , all he wants is to get between ur legs thats it , and girl thats not love thats sex plain old sex only , u need to think do u really want to spend ur life with some one who remebers u only when his penis is up , u need some one who will allways think of u as his friend as his sister as his loved one in all shapes and terms he loves u 4 u .
some times love can be cruel .
p.s. ejoying having sex with some one does not mean that u love him or that he loves u
2007-01-24 19:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by jaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh, sweetheart....
guys are really creepy people. in general, they want sex.. most people will probably say this to you, but i don't want to say if you're not giving it to him, he's getting it somewhere else.. because that isn't necessarily the case... the thing is, guys aren't clingy people -- and the first time a woman does something physical with a man, she gets kind of clingy -- so guys will tend to distant themselves.
on the otherhand, i first started being physical with my boyfriend a few weeks ago.. and since then we talk almost everyday and see eachother a few times a week.. because he cares about me and know i need to be comforted because i gave up a lot to him.. perhaps you just need to tell him that since you are being physical you want to feel cared about more often.. and that he should try to make more time to spend with you..
<3
2007-01-24 03:58:54 · answer #2 · answered by ashwee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, seems like he just want your body and nothing else. bet whenever hes affectionate with you are the times he wants to have sex with you, am i right? sorry for being so rude but thats the way i see it.
yeah, you love him, but the question is, does he loves you or he just love to have sex with you? open your eyes girl and dont be so martyr, let go of him. you can still find a decent man who will respect you and truly loves you.
break up with him as early as possible before everything gets worst.
2007-01-24 03:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by ---q.ty pie--- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with him! Nothing is better than communication between a couple...it seems he has been using you for his sexual needs, but talk and get everything cleared up
good luck
2007-01-24 03:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by uhhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to ask him--he may be stressed or have other things in mind... he may not be ready for commitment and is taking it slow... lots of possibilities... just ask him :)
if you are having doubts you should tell him your doubts too. gd luck!
2007-01-24 03:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋