I'm 16 years old and my girl friend is 22.I love her with all my heart my friends thinks its wrong I don't.Girls my age were bitchs and didn't work out my girl friend now treats me better then my exs.My mom and dad are ok with they said "as long as your happy thats all we care".One of my exs witch is one of my closest friends thinks its wrong and should go out with girls my age.Is it realey wrong?
2007-01-23 19:23:13 · 17 answers · asked by god_shadow5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I don't think it is wrong at all. When I was 23 I dated a 16 yo, and we were extremely happy together. He always told me how much better I was than girls his own age, calmer and more loving and didn't give him crap or mess him around. He was incredibly sweet and sincere and extremely romantic and we had a lot in common as well. We only broke up becaue I had to move interstate for work, and he couldn't come with me because of school. His next girlfriend was also a few years older than him, and my boyfriend now is younger than me.
I would trust your parents' judgement - if they see this is a happy, healthy relationship, then I'm sure it is. I wish you both the best.
2007-01-23 20:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be careful here, you and her are treading on thin ice with this situation. One you are not of age and she is, that would put her in very hot water according to the law. I would keep a low profile and not let to many people know about it. Maybe act like you are not dating her, so your friends will leave the situation alone. Good Luck.
2007-01-23 19:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by 1TON 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
So not wrong, girls always go for older men dont they?
Im 17, and me and this 15 year old are startin something (not as much of a gap as you 2 but still...) what has age got to do with it anyway? Its about the person you are, not what year you were born!
Plus, guys usually fantasize about havin an older women dont they? More experience? Plus they dont giggle 24/7 and dump you just coz you´re wearin a red jacket and they hate red!
Go for it, if you like/love her...stick with it!
2007-01-23 19:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
she is a damn child molester! that's nasty! I'm 22 and there is no way in hell i would date a damn 16 year old. no way!!!
you are just a kid. she is probably taking advantage of you. kids are so gullible, naive, and inexperienced.
that's why older guys try to mess with young girls so much. think about it!
if i were your parents i would tell that girl about herself. it doesn't look so bad when it is the other way around...but a 22 year old man and a 16 year old female would get way more attention. either way...it is wrong. if she likes you then she will wait until you are at least a legal adult!
i don't care what these children on here are saying!!! they don't know a damn thing! its against the law, for crying out loud...and all these kids are like "oh yeah, nothing wrong with it!". BULL CRAP!! if anyone finds out about it...and reports her...even if your parents don't press charges..the state can pick up the case. she would have to register as a sex offender for the rest of her natural born life. this is serious! do you know how serious they are getting on pedophiles these days?!! I'm serious...stay friends with her if you want to...but don't take it any more than that until you are grown.
2007-01-23 19:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by angie20k 4 · 1⤊ 5⤋
If I date older women, we ususally can get the senior discount! LOL. Statutory rape goes both ways, especially these days. In the old days nobody much cared if the male was younger.
My motto is 18 to 81 (hey I do have my standards).
2007-01-23 19:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by PartyTime 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Since you are only 16, just go on and be happy, the world is still to big for you to understand. You will understand this when you get older.
2007-01-23 19:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by cohoness 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Keep dreaming. No 22 year old would even think of dating other than another 22 year old.
2007-01-23 19:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by Phillip 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A witch is one of your closest friends? Does she cast spells for you; is that how you got a woman 6 years your senior?? Maybe you should ask her for guidance!
2007-01-23 19:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nothing is wrong when love is right. Age is just a number, an alike thinking can make the age difference closer.
2007-01-23 19:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by Christine 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
no its not wrong at all. in this day and age things are changing. when it comes to love, love has no boundaries and age is nothing but a number. as long as u guys love each other and respect each other things should be fine. but u cant listen to anyone bc in the end u will never be happy trying to please everyone else.
2007-01-23 19:30:11 · answer #10 · answered by superstar 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋