I'm trying to make up with my fiance and I need some ideas....?

Question

I want to do something really special just to let him know that I'm sorry and I really do love him. No i didn't cheat if thats what you guys are thinking. So could you give me some ideas on what or where to take him and surprise him. Thanx

Answer 1

tell him you want to take him out for dinner and talk things out. go to an expensive place and then take him back to your place and give him some good sincere loving.that should do it.

Answer 2

It's hard to tell you how to make up with him when I don't know what happened to make the relationship go downhill. Let me just put it this way: My best friend has had her wedding called off twice by her former-fiance. I really don't like him because he's cheated on her a lot in the past and he treats her horribly. She's heartbroken and I keep trying to help her out, but she won't listen to me because I've "never had my wedding day taken from me". She needs to stay away from him and stop calling him and not answer his calls or text messages. That way, with the time away from him she can see if that was really the man she was meant to be with and she can begin to get over him. She wants me to give her advice on how to get him back but I know for a fact that he does not want her back (my boyfriend and him are best friends so I've heard all their conversations) and it breaks my heart to see her so dellusional over him. Like I said, I don't know your situation, but just give it time. Think about if he's the right guy for you or not. I you know for a fact he is, sit him down and discuss the problem first hand (not in public because this is a serious conversation and people are nosey). Don't beat around the bush and ask him specifically what you can do to repair the problem that has been made.
Good luck in your decision! :-D

Answer 3

How can you win your ex back? And do you even want to?
Steps
1.Create some space between yourself and the ex. After taking the time to let your ex know you wish things could be better and you need some time, stop all phone calls, emails, text messages, etc.
2.Take some time to reflect on your own life. What improvements can be made? Be honest with yourself. Have you been selfish? Demanding? Argumentative? Angry? Jealous?
3.Once you've figured out what you may have done wrong in the relationship, resist the urge to call the ex and show off your newfound self-realization. You could be wrong. Actions speak louder than words. Just BE the new improved self.
4.Invite your ex to talk to you. Express regret things weren't working out between you and ask if you can talk about it now that you have some perspective. Ask if what went wrong was related to what you've been working on. Your ex may have a different perspective!
5.If you agree on the things that went wrong are the things you've changed about yourself, offer to try again as long as both of you can work on whatever is left unresolved.
6.Don't forget your ex could have improvements to make! If they were perfect they could have helped you work on your problems while still being together. Don't just cling to your emotions of wanting to be loved, work at understanding each other.
Tips
•If you find yourself obsessed with your ex, experiment with your thoughts. Think of someone else that you like just as much or would like to know. How are they different?
•View your relationship as a third-person. If you saw how another couple were and they behaved the same as you and your ex, what is wrong? If you think it is wrong for "that other couple" then how are you viewing you?
Warnings
•Avoid rebound relationships and one-night stands. You probably won't make your ex jealous enough to come back, and you'll only be adding more confusion to the mix.
•Relationships are about two people. Any one of them can end a relationship - both have to want to be together. You can't force someone to love you.

Answer 4

Personally, I don't even think it matters if you take him somewhere. I really think you should sit him down and just dig really deep in your heart and express all your feeling to him. Tell him exact what you are sorry about and let him know how bad you feel about what you did to hurt him. Make sure you sound sure that you can show him that you won't do anything to hurt him ever again. Or you can write him a letter telling him this. Ive tried it plenty and it worked.

Answer 5

What are you sorry for? Courtship should be the most glorious time of you life. How you get along now will tell you what your life with your mate will be like, multiplied by 10 +. All I can say is take a good look at what your problem is.

Answer 6

It depends on the nature of guilt. Eventhough you said that you didn't cheat on him, but if you did something drastically that would jeopardize your relationship such as gambling away all of his hard-earning money or mistreating his family...If these are the cases, then you would have to do alot more than patching up to him with gifts or sweet talks.

Since, you didn't specify your guilt, it's difficult to give you an appropriate advice.

Answer 7

Send him flowers or a nice sweet gift to his home or work with a little dinner invitation note ;)

Answer 8

I dont negotiate