she had an affair before marriage, but now she says that she loves me. I cant understand whether she loves me or she loves her boyfriend.she had a call from her boyfriend once in a month
2007-01-23 19:11:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She still gets calls from the boyfriend and you are still married to her are you crazy. She defiantly doesn't love you, if she did the boyfriend wouldn't be in the picture anymore. Get out and find you someone that is worth your time.
2007-01-23 19:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Many people, many women have got a skeleton or two in their cupboards. Either you get used to it, and you're likely to be cheated in the end, because skeletons can be very much lively at times, or get the darn thing straight at her, and you could wind up being lied to eventually. That's a common no win/ no win situation. Only your wife can untie the situation, if she feels she owes it to you. They usually stall at that, but it can hopefully happen. Try your hand, friend and see that she knows you're concerned and on the ready to act accordingly.
2007-01-23 19:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Other than 1 call a month, is there anything else? No need to get suspicious from that only. Anyway monitor her calls and movements.
2007-01-24 04:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the B**c* go. Why are you setting yourself up for future problems ? It´s obvious alone ,because of you asking this Question; that your relationship with a B**c * won´t last very long. Find a woman who really needs help. She´ll first of all appreciate you for who and what you are secondly you´ll have much less stress.
2007-01-23 19:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by RJ2K1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, she is married and now she got nothing to do with her x-boyfriend. You think she is having a call once in a month from her boyfriend then surely she is cheating you and she doesn't love you.
But make sure she what she talking to her boyfriend.
1. I still love you
2. Why are calling me?
and on..................
Last... if he call your wife again and you are man then find him and kick his A**.
2007-01-23 19:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Now that you are married do not thing about the past relation ship your wife had with somebody. Love her with all your heart so that she will love you in the same way.
2007-01-23 19:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget the past & live happily with your wife if he calls ones in a month then dont worry they be a freind.
2007-01-23 19:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by ManishKumar Jain 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
that doesnt make sence... if shes married to you with a bf then somethings wrong........ divorce her ***.... thats not kool..... if hes a guy she had an affair with and is still talkin to him and it makes u feel uncomfortable.. tell her you pick me or him.. and if she chooses you... then tell her u dont want her talkin to him anymore. its not fair to your relationship.... sounds to me like u shouldnt have gotten married till u knew it was really over
2007-01-23 19:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by jingles 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look at her behavior. how she trate with ? does she care about ur feeling?
may be she is just frined with her ex boyfriend. and she choose u as her man.
2007-01-23 22:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's confused, she is probably a middle child who is not able to make a decision. you have to sit down together and talk about it. what she is doing is threatening your marriage.
2007-01-23 22:05:31 · answer #10 · answered by terra 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋