OK, There is this chic that is constantly flirting with me, and it is obvious, she is always complimenting my eyes, talkin about ho she thinks my boots are "soooo sexy" and other coments along those lines. But there is one problem, she has a boyfriend. And I dont know what to do, Do I ask her out anyways, or I tell her to shove off? And I have to admit, I really like this girl....
2007-01-23 19:08:19 · 8 answers · asked by Brent E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mr. E,
Don't fall for this stuff, right now. IF you like her, let her know about it, but don't ask her out. GIVEN the information, she should think about it. IF she really wants you ;), then she'll dump the one who's banging her and go for you. Then the doors will open.
I've convinced a girl to break up with her boyfriend.....so there's hope
2007-01-23 19:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff E 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
am i the girl? am in that situation now actually..
i like this guy..but i just as a friend. sometimes when i miss my bf, i flirt with him. now he actually likes me back! and i have a bf...
so maybe what you can do is just hang around her if you can (like let your heart be on guard cuz you're in for a heartbreak here since she has a bf). or you may disregard her compliments as just being friendly.
if you ask her to shove off (if it was me, i'll feel you're being an airhead and too egoistic and never treat you nice anymore..),be ready for whatever reactions she may have. telling a girl to shove off is never a good idea... >.<
if she doesn't put any serious hot stuff into it, then just play by her lines then. she might get bored after a while...
just a suggestion.
2007-01-24 03:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has a boyfriend you are a wise man to stay away. You need to leave her alone. Why do you want a girl that is heavily flirting with a another man when she has a boyfriend. People that do that stuff, usually flirt and cheat with a bunch of other men as well.
2007-01-24 03:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by KatieL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, if she is flirting with u flirt back (unless this boyfriend of hers is a good friend of you). if she reacts positive she either wants to leave her boyfriend or she is really making a fool of you. but the chances that you get her are better than if u don't flirt and tell her to shove off. look at it: one way you could win or loose, the other way you can only loose.
2007-01-24 03:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by narshtaph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this girl, you should make her leave her boyfriend! When she says her sexy comments reply the same... But be a gentle guy... She won't like to feel abused... touch her face softly but don't kiss her... Make her want more but don't give this more to her... When she asks you why? u'll tell her that u like her that much that u don't want to hurt her and make her cheating on her bf... And if she really likes u, she'll break up with him to be ur sweetgirl!
good luck
2007-01-24 03:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's giving compliments only and no need to read anything into it more.
2007-01-24 03:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes playing mind games... typical women
2007-01-24 03:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by hookemhorns903 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go screw, then ignore her, girls her age like that
2007-01-24 03:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffi Poodle Pie 69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋