Ladies: Do you get goosebumps when a man startles you by sneaking up from behind?

Question

...and whispering softly in your ear, or touching your arm, or maybe saying hello while placing his hand lightly on your back?

Amazing...check out how many of you react to the question with violence directed as a man's most vulnerable spot, for no apparent reason. Imagine if you tickled a guy and he punched you in the face! Is that fair?!

Answer 1

I like the caressing from behind, the goose bumps from him kissing my ears, but I panic when he scares me, or sneaks up on me.....I hate that!!!

I hate scary movies of any kind, but I love goosebumps.....

Answer 2

yo diddy widdy hohum. ebbybody getty doz gooze bumps when some body bodies reaaaaaally close mon. it feel so lively and good mon. even a nice german sheppard give me goozybumps. it make me do the thumper humper
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Answer 3

Yes, and my hubby kisses my neck & I go ape ****!
But here are a few Female Erogenous Zones, I will not mention the plainly obvious ones that are more discrete. We want to keep the answer on a CLEAN level for all ages of readers here in Y/A. :)

Her Neck
Her neck must be one of the hottest spots on the female body. I have never found a method more effective than hot passionate kisses on the neck to turn a good night kiss into an invitation for brunch. There are several things to keep in mind here … but most importantly, control yourself! Hickies may have been the big thing when you were younger, but most women hate them, especially when they have to wear turtlenecks for a week! If you must suck for blood, keep the hickies to places that are usually covered by clothes. Like her low neckline area which can be covered by a regular blouse. Try to have a moist mouth, but don't slobber! EWE we HATE slobbering! You are NOT a doggy! Cover different areas of her neck with tender kisses, using the areas under/behind the ears for extra stimulation. Light nibbling and tugging usually work really well also. Start out soft and gentle as she gets into it, slowly go harder and wilder to light that fire of passion within her.

Her Ears
Bundles of nerve endings are in and around the ears, making them ultra-sensitive to your touch. Use the pads of your index finger and thumb to massage the outer ears with slow, firm movements. Gently squeeze the earlobes. Explore the area behind the ear with your lips and lips, and then exhale deeply but gently while you keep nibbling. Don't be shy about making noise while you're lingering there, the sound of your breath and moans is a huge turn-on for most women. Make sure to remember there is a fine line between sensual ear play and “wet willies”. Very few women enjoy having someone's tongue jammed down their ears! Women like to know YOU are enjoying it too, making little sounds lets a woman know you are.

Her Lips
The number one mistake guys (especially married or in long term relationships) make during relations? Not enough kissing. Women love to kiss, and many of them complain that guys just don't spend enough time on it. But don't just kiss more, also do it better. Try varying the intensity (kiss her softly, then more passionately, then slow it down again). When you're done with her lips, move on to her cheeks, eyelids, forehead, nose, neck, or earlobes (stressing neck and ears). Don’t get dull doing the same thing over and over; make sure to mix up your style. If you generally move your hands all over her body when you kiss (which, by the way, is really good), try kissing her for several minutes without letting your hands roam (focus all you passion on the kiss), and let her indicate when she's ready to move on.

Her Scalp
You've noticed that a lot of women play with their hair? It's not just a nervous habit; they do it because it feels good. Chances are she's wishing you would play with it, too. The scalp can be very sensitive to stimulation, and since she's probably not expecting you to lavish any attention on it, surprise her. Having her hair brushed can be a very sensual experience. Or run your fingers through it as you're kissing her, or, simply caress her scalp gently with your hand. Get some bonus points for washing or blow-drying, just leave the actual styling to her - you'll never get that thing with her bangs to work out right. On the other hand, some women have phobias when it comes to having their head touched; start out slow so your partner has a chance to stop you if she is one of those.

Her Other Soft Spots
Here is where you can be really creative. Try tenderly kissing or caressing the backs of her knees, the insides of her arms, her inner thighs, or her palms. Women love to have these areas gently stroked, kissed, nibbled, or blown upon (be gentle on these areas, they are made of very soft tissue). Gentle stimulation is usually more arousing than pressure that's hard or rough. Catching her off guard can be half the fun. A lot of people don't realize that having a tongue going up their inner arm is going to be erotic. Again, I must stress that skin is the largest organ; there is lots to explore, so get at it!

The Small Of Her Back
Don't make the mistake of making her breasts the only stop on your way to the main event. That's what she's expecting. Surprise her by asking her to lie on her stomach and massage her lower back. Besides being rich in nerve endings, the small of the back has pressure points where stress can accumulate. A massage there might not turn her on in the same way that more provokative things do, but it'll feel good and help release stress. What's more, it could even help with arousal, by increasing blood flow and engorgement in other areas. Start by applying steady but moderate pressure with your fingertips and if she likes it, work up to a deeper massage. It never hurts to throw in a few kisses there as well. One technique we have learned usually works well with a massage is; while you are massaging her, take a minute or so to kiss her neck, then run your lips very softly down her spine. After this you can continue with the massage or "take her out to lunch at a nice resteraunt!"

Her Fingers and Toes
A little creativity can go a long way when sex is involved. Here's a tip: Try nibbling on her fingers or toes. (Granted, unless you're a contortionist, the toe thing may be a bit rough during relations, but you can usually find her fingers.) They're a lot more sensitive than you might think and for whatever reason, a relatively large area in the brain receives sensation for them.

Answer 4

Well, what he's likely to get is a swift kick in the groin if I don't know him.....

Answer 5

Only if it is my husband. If it is not, then I would have a reaction to kick him where it *hurts*.

Answer 6

Sometimes.

Answer 7

yes

Answer 8

if its my bf, no but if its a stranger, expect me to kick his groin!

Answer 9

no but he might get a broken nose.

Answer 10

If I know him yeah.