What is with Guys and clothes. I' 14 and I love fashion, and will do anything for a nice guy with good clothes and one thats not gay.
Are guys just not wanting to spend the money to get them. I'm not talking Dolce & Gabbana (Even though that would be nice) I just want a guy that looks good and is nice.
Do I have any hope in finding one...
2007-01-23 18:22:05 · 17 answers · asked by missdramatick 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Haha .. Young girls and Fashion ... i guess its a must ..
Plus I design and make my own clothes as well .. so i guess its a hobby for me ...
2007-01-23 18:53:49 · update #1
Thanks for your help everyone ..
2007-01-23 18:56:50 · update #2
And the other thing I was wanting in a guy was a nice one and one that like me for me .. I come from a very well off family and most guys want me for my money .. and because im popular .. dont worry ... i'll live with waiting. ..
2007-01-23 18:58:00 · update #3
if you're 14 and you even remotely imagine that 14 year old boys will be wearing d&g then you're sadly mistaken, because 14 year old boys don't have that kind of money. And if you saw it, they'd probably be wearing fake d&g they bought off ebay. Also, most boys your age either like the emo style, the skater style, the lazy baggy style, or the black person ghetto style. Wait until you are older.
PS don't you find it exceedingly disturbing how the middle-aged man named "jack" with the half-naked picture of himself as his avatar signed his post "love jack"? *shudder*
2007-01-23 18:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by answerman2000 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men don't care much about fashion at any age, especially not at 14. When you learn that, you'll be much better off. Your prospects depend on what kind of guy you consider attractive and nice, and how attractive and nice you are. Don't be too picky. The odds against you finding a nice, good looking guy who happens to be a fashion freak are great, even if you happen to look good yourself. Be reasonable in your expectations. Does it matter if the man looks exactly like a male model? Or that he dresses like one?
I happen to be picky about my clothes in some ways, but I shop at Walmart and I find almost everything I need there. I refuse to pay for brand-names -- I go for the overall look and functionality of the apparel. I usually wear button-up shirts and blue jeans with plain leather shoes, and my friends say that I'm slightly overdressed most of the time. I think you need to reconsider your criteria about fashion. Good luck!
2007-01-24 02:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are 14 i would imagine your best direction is to go after the guys that dress nice, act nice and claim to be gay or are judged to be gay. most 14 year old boys that are concerned with the way the look will automatically be called gay, whether they are or not. they may hear it so much they may think that they must be because of the activities they enjoy.
i personally believe that being gay is a deception of the devils. i can not think of anything that one guy could give to another guy that a gal could not give him also. Love, understanding, friendship, appreciating human figures( male and female), emotional support. i just don't see anything that a gal could not provide him with.
what about sex? your 14 forget about sex. when you become legal and marry him you will be able to figure out ways to accomodate his irregular appetite. if indeed he was or thinks he might be gay.
as for regular 14 year old boys they will never be concerned about always looking nice for fear of being called gay.
2007-01-24 02:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male sex hormones do not get interested in quality clothing unless there is a specific reason associated with monetary or guaranteed social-status gain. As a result, most men do not become interested in shopping for clothes until later in life, and even then we only do it because we "have to."
Power tools are a different matter entirely.
2007-01-24 02:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Boomer Wisdom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Look around. But don't expect too many 14-year-old boys to big on fashion. That normally comes a little later on when they discover you girls and want to impress you. Most 14-year-old boys aren't quite there yet.
2007-01-24 02:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the culture we are raised in. Clothes is usually not a priority. We were raise with the pressures of performance. So a lot of us try to master some sort of skill. (ex. sciences, sports, etc.)
You don't want a guy that's too metro-sexual. That's usually a sign of vanity or narcissism. Baggage comes with that (ex. high maintenance, vapid brain, lack of personality).
As for you finding one, only time will tell...
2007-01-24 02:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya gotta hang out at the mall in the stores where you like the guys clothes. Act like your shopping for your brother!!! Maybe youll find him there!! But also consider..At 14 they are only thinking about two things...They are both three letter words. "Car" and "S--" so give it a couple of years...they will be ready to shop. Trust me.
2007-01-24 02:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by HappyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most 14 year old boys are not interested in fashion.
2007-01-24 02:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gay and I love fashion. I feel if you look good you feel good. If you you look cool then you feel cool. Nothing wrong with making yourself pleasing to look at and clothes will do it. It don't have to be expensive just pleasing to look at. I dress in all kind of styles, sometimes it's casual, hiphop, GQ or preppy.
2007-01-24 02:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by East side 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most young guys dont care about "fashion"
thats what girls are for... you can play dress up once you snach a nice guy.
2007-01-24 02:26:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋