okay heres the deal, my boyfrend likes me an i like him (love), but sometimes he doesnt allow me to sit on his lap or sit by him, so i dont always do other things like kiss him, he only kisses me, this is because i dont think i kno the right time to do it an he might not want me to. how do i kno when to do things? sometimes i feel rejected by him because there are so many things i let him do, an not many things he lets me do, can anyone help with this situation? theres not really a question here, just leave a comment of what u think about it
2007-01-23 18:14:46 · 13 answers · asked by angelsthrone67 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This behavior is awfully strange. I'd talk to him about it and tell him how it makes you feel.
2007-01-23 18:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all sounds very odd. If the only thing he refuses to do is to let you sit on his lap, the first thing that comes to mind is that you might be too heavy for him. If you're obese, you shouldn't be sitting on his lap (actually, you should be running laps to lose some weight). Other than that . . . I think you need to talk to him about the problem. Sounds very strange. Good luck!
2007-01-24 02:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just make the move sometime out of the blue you may get a reaction from him whether good or bad and why are you not sitting beside him or on his lap? My man lets me do this whenever I want to. That is strange.
2007-01-24 02:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by LSD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a really loving affectionate person.......get rid of him
It sounds like he has some issues with you being the aggressor when it comes to showing affection, sex, etc. It sounds like his confidence level is pretty low and by making you feel unsure of yourself, it makes him feel better. You are too great of a person to sit back and wait for someone else to give u the okay to be near them. Any normal guy is cool with a girl sitting on their lap... is he crazy????
2007-01-24 02:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by kendall3493 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wdf are u under his control atleest it luks like tht.
Someday sit on his lap n if he still minds it or tells u to move don't listen instead lower ur lips n kiss him. do smthing be4 its too late n he controls everything u do. nxt tym u c him just slip ur hand inhis give him a smile n a small peck on his lips. Buck up girl.
2007-01-24 02:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wierd...maybe he just likes being incharge...
tell him u dont like that he doesnt let u do things he gets 2 do to u
n that u feel rejected n dat this way ur relationship will never work
u can even try reverse psychology n not let him do the things he does n then tell him how u feel
2007-01-24 02:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A "real" relationship allows both parties to contribute. When one person has their way all the time in the relationship, then that's not a good relationship.
2007-01-24 02:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by Ultimate Fighter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop giving him much attention. He would fall back on the track. You sometimes need to make person realize how it hurts to be ignorant about your partners feeling. If he really likes you he would realize this.
2007-01-24 02:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by antonio b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to decide if that what you want in life. if not then let him know you need more. if he pushes you away . then stop him the next time he want to get close to u. let him know that your not happy with the way things are. you feel that your wanted . that it two way street in a relationship
2007-01-24 02:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by wildsexydreamer69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds sort of self-absorbed, in his own little world. He wants affection when he wants it on his own terns. Sort of self-centered. He should be thinking more about you and your needs for affection. It shouldn't always be a "one-way street." Better have a talk with him.
2007-01-24 02:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋