i am leaving in aboard last june i went to india.i was not allowed to stay in my mother house.my sisters are not welcomed to come to meet me.i ad my sister are twins so i miss her a lot
2007-01-23 18:09:18 · 12 answers · asked by vive 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think anyone should be kept from their family. Does he have a family that he sees? Ask him how he would feel of he wasn't able to see them. I don't see why you couldn't stay in your mothers house unless he wasn't welcomed to stay with you. If you expected him to go stay in a hotel alone, that was wrong. Ask him why he won't allow your sister to come to stay with you for a week or so for a visit. If he is against it tell him you have to go alone and visit your family for a week or so. Family is important and he needs to see they are an important part of you and you need them in your life. Make sure he knows they are your family but he is your love, he may just be feeling insecure. Good Luck! =)
2007-01-23 18:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by DB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be the last person to say I understand you culture and beliefs, but as a human being you are not owned by your husband you are joined in marriage, and bound there by rules, . but you are a product of your family and I think have the right and need to be in contact with them, If you husband has no legitimate reason for keeping you from them then perhaps your religion could give you guidance. I know that in India it is a male oriented society, but your father is a male there fore must have some say in your living arrangement , so possibly he could ask about you being allowed to visit. I do not wish to offer you advise that will get you in trouble that could hurt you so this is the best I can offer for you to think about
2007-01-23 18:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok... it particularly is a answer. if the boy needs to reason hardship, then forbid him to come back over. Your husband has to back this play. Its the two that or he has to take his son someplace else to work out him. you need to face up and tell him you will no longer permit the boy disrespect you. back, he has to back this. it could't be you asserting it and your husband nodding his head. He needs to attain the severity of this situation. 0.33 determination is counseling. If its coated decrease than a scientific plan, do it. Now, basic issues you're able to do: a million. in no way talk approximately grownup issues with him around. and as quickly as I say around, i propose interior the dwelling house. 2. initiate taking administration of the situation. the two your husband needs to strengthen some or you need to set the little heathen at the instant. base line is he thinks YOU led to the divorce. He would not get it and he won't get it. he's being poisoned by using his mom. i think of the suited reaction is day journeys. What i propose is he comes over and spends the day. No overnights. in the adventure that your husband needs to in one day him on the dwelling house, i hate to assert this, yet, you need to circulate someplace else while he's around in the adventure that your husband won't back you. he needs to have a "come to Jesus talk" along with his son. situations a wastin and that i promise you, that 10 year previous will do something to the child in case you do no longer watch it. have been given an undesirable lot of indicators and indicators. and if Hubby is in denial, that's while it particularly is going to ensue
2016-12-12 19:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel in my views, and you will do what you want but what i feel is right is your Family is and should be your most importance.
They will always be right there for you when and if something goes wrong with your relationships.
Go with your heart on this one, and Good luck to you.
2007-01-24 23:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by wildflowerswildfire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your culture is something else. Try to get online with some other indian wives, maybe they could empower u somehow.
Im sorry
2007-01-23 19:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by LadyK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi.i can understand ur problem.just speak with ur husband when he is in a good mood,ask him proper reason for not allowing u go to ur parents home.if possible take the help of ur inlaws.i think they can help for certain...
have patience and pray to God.
2007-01-23 18:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought Indian people were family oriented.
2007-01-24 11:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my family is important..does he have a good reason ?
even so you should talk to him tell him how you feel .these people are your family and life is short and you should be able to see and be with your family...
2007-01-23 18:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by chan72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband cannot tell you what to do, he is not your boss , tell him to **** off, hand over the credit cards, make YOUR dinner and then do what you want.
2007-01-24 02:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by Angela C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come home next week wearing a Kippah and say you've converted to Judaism....problem solved
2007-01-23 18:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋