i am law student, i dated only once, i really dont have much time for adting to busy with school.
2007-01-23 17:53:01 · 45 answers · asked by lisalawyer101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's really admirable. I'm 21 and still a virgin as well. Really, it isn't abnormal or anything. You have something precious to offer that lots of women don't have. Keep up the good work! Good night!
2007-01-23 17:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, that's not bad.
I am a 34 year old male (almost 35) and I, too, have only dated once, have never been kissed (not on the lips anyway) and I am still a virgin. The one time I was kissed doesn't even count after I found out the same girl kissed my brother, too. Blecch!
If I may start with virginity, I am very happy that I am still a virgin because I still have the option to give that gift to the right girl.
My brother went through law school (and I'm in a PhD Psychology program myself) so I know how that goes. Were it not for another area of my life that I need to iron out first, I would be dating anyway, though, if I found a classmate I really liked and who felt the same way. We both have to eat, and a break from studying here and there is a good thing. But grad school ends at some point. Then we'll both have more time. ;)
You're just doing just fine, if you ask me!
2007-01-23 18:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be proud of yourself. Maybe people beat themselves down if they are still a virgin after, but it's nothing to be ashamed of.
Look at it this way, Would you rather have lost your virginity at a young age to a person who didn't up being the one?
Many people regret losing their virginity to someone they didn't end up staying with. Very few (or none) feel regret for waiting until they new the time was right.
Live live, don't worry about the time that you will lose your virginity. If you waiting this long, I can tell the time will come when you are 100% ready and you know the person is the right one for you. Don't let any man say "If you love me you'll have sex with me" because if he loves you he wouldn't be saying that in the first place.
I admire people like you, I lost my virginity at 18 but I've been with the man for 2 years and we are still going strong.
I recommend for you to finish school, date here and there, then worry about who it is you wan't to have a serious relationship with. You'll know when the time is right to give up your virginity.
Good luck =]
2007-01-23 18:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by beth3988 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a 1L or even a 2L, it would be wise to join a study group to get you out. You may find a gorgeous student who is passionate about Contract Law.
Seriously. Is school as 24/7 thing with you? I would not say being a virgin at 24 is "bad" or the never being kissed is "bad", but these are needs as important if not more so than school. Your dedication is admirable, but you emotional health is paying a price.
2007-01-23 18:05:11 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not bad.but it certainly is boring.I am sorry i am not trying to be mean.if still a virgin ? that means never had an orgasm either.I would guess.at least get to know your body.touch yourself .find out what feels good and go from there.the pleasure centers of our bodies are there for 2 reasons .reproduction and physical pleasure. I was "a virgin" till 18 but had many orgasms before actually having sex.getting to know what feels good will help you to know .when your ready for the real thing.be smart be careful .practice save sex.its always (for the most part lol) safe when done alone.as humans we are in our sexual prime from about 13 to 18 .too bad were too young to really know what we are doing. the older we get? well its just like sight and hearing.it starts to not work as well. especially for men.
No its not bad . but your not getting any younger.
it may not be right or morally correct for me to say this........but
you don't know what your missing...when you find out ?
you will also find the time...believe me you will find the time.
enjoy .........E
do not feel guilty or ashamed by anything you do with your body when alone ....its your body ....if it feels good? you should
2007-01-23 18:28:49 · answer #5 · answered by ojaieric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, why would that be bad??? that is admirable, believe me its a waste of time to go out with the wrong person for ages and then just go through a break up! but if you do want to get married some day, you should be careful not to become to introverted and shy around guys - make sure you have guy friends now, just so you can keep meeting guys etc so that you have the opportunity to maybe meet your husband one day.
2007-01-23 17:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad, but you might have a hard time of it with the way things are nowadays. As long as you have experience dating so that you are not taken advantage of, don't worry about it. If it's by choice, fine. If you just haven't made time for yourself, then please do. You can't put one part of your life on hold in order to further your career. These are the best days of your life, so try to balance them. You'll be less stressed and enjoy life more.
2007-01-23 17:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never feel bad about "keeping yourself" for the right person in your life. There is NO shame in doing right. Hey you are a law student you should know doing right IS GOOD! That right person will come along soon enough. Just continue doing right and doing good and wait for good things to happen.
2007-01-23 17:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is absolutely nothing wrong with that...i am 25..been kissed maybe 3 times and am still a virgin...the thing about my situation which could be true for you is that i just am not going to settle for anyone...i am not interested in flings or one night stands...i want to find someone that is willing to work at a relationship...as far as virginity..that is gonna be for someone pretty special...but thats just me...dont worry about it...focus on what you need to do,..a guy that is worth it will come along...you will have plenty of time...heck we are still young...good luck in school...
2007-01-23 18:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by michele m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on school right now, the guys and the kisses will come later.
My cousin was a virgin until she was 42. She waited till she got married.
2007-01-23 17:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋