My best friends brother wants me to have sex with him but I'm not really sure I want to. First of all I am still a virgin and I sorta want my first time to mean something. Second of all I really really like him and I'm afraid that if I just give in and have sex with him he won't talk to me anymore and I really wouldn't want that because we spend a lot of time together as a group. I don't know what to do.
2007-01-23 17:52:29 · 6 answers · asked by bostitchzoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also on Saturday we all took a trip to Chicago and all freakin day he didn't talk to me and he was hitting on some chick at "The Original Mothers" and then when we got on the train to come home he was all puttin his arm around me and tryin to get me to come home with him...And yes he has taken me out to dinner a couple of times...But I REALLY REALLY LIKE HIM...
2007-01-23 18:03:15 · update #1
Your hesitation speaks loads about you. I respect and encourage your desire to make your first time special. This is not that time. Wait a while longer, because you're most likely right about how it will affect your group.
In short, if you ever have doubts, don't. Don't trade what you want most for what you want at the moment.
2007-01-23 17:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by Fergi the Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does not sound as though he has even bothered to take you out to dinner! scumbag! who the heck does he think he is? no, tell him to get a vinyl vagina at an adult toy store or else to buy sex.
2007-01-24 01:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by Louiegirl_Chicago 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will say your easy if you give in.
so dont give in.
since your a virgin save the first time to be majical!
there will be nothing majical about sleeping with him then leaving you later..
so best answer is NO..dont sleep with him
2007-01-24 13:14:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already kno w what you need to do. So forget about him ..Dont do anything you will regret.
2007-01-24 01:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's highly likely he won't respect you afterwards. Dont do it.
2007-01-24 01:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u feel
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2007-01-24 01:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋