emailed his ex this email - hey i was just thinking about you the other day.
im wondering if you are still around.
let me know
can you tell me if this is normal? we've been together for almost 5 years, and he was only with this girl for a few months. i don't know what to do. i'm so lost right now. thanks.
2007-01-23 17:49:05 · 11 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think you should worry much. i mean if uve been with him for 5 years, then you should be able to trust him. why dont you jst ask him what that was all about.
2007-01-23 17:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by M.O.B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really doesn't look good. How do you feel about the relationship? Are you guys still in love, or do you feel the relationship fading away? In any case, it doesn't look normal. Try to spark up the relationship more and get him more interested, because if he's emailing his ex stuff like that, it's not a good sign.
2007-01-24 01:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by HELLRAISER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not normal at all. He's trying to hook back up with her and that's not a good sign. If you confront him, I'm sure he'll have a lame excuse. Whatever his excuse is, it doesn't make it right. He's already starting to wander mentally so you might want to do him a favor and end it so he can be with whomever he wants to wonder about.
You can think of an ex all you want but once you cross the line of contacting them, you have one agenda. Sorry hun, I've been there and done that. It's not a good sign at all.
2007-01-24 01:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds Like His Commitment and Interest is straying from You!
Confront and Discuss!
However,it does raise Trust Issues on Both sides!!
2007-01-24 01:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell u this but it looks like he still has the hots for his ex cuz that is never normal to email ur ex and tell them that they were just thinking about them and wonders if they're still around...
2007-01-24 01:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by jmclean1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your bf and you have been together five entire years and you're not married yet. Maybe he's not that committed to your relationship after all. Time for a chat.
2007-01-24 01:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb, if he wants to take five steps backwards then let him. There are other men out there waiting to meet you.
2007-01-24 01:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Ultimate Fighter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to hook up with her again, time to either bring some spice back into your relationship or let go of the loser.
2007-01-24 01:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is horrible...it sounds like he wants to get back with his ex.
I am sorry this is happening to you...how awful :-(
2007-01-24 01:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by uabsupercow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to make you jealous
2007-01-24 02:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋