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I have been going to the gym everyday for the past week. Everytime I am there, there is this cute girl that is always there at the same time. Once, when i was leaving and she was on the treadmill, I caught her looking at me. Being the stubborn ediot that I am, I did not smile, and looked away. Ive been seeing her there every damn time since. We look at eachother, but no smile. We kind of just look away. Today She walked right past me. She didnt look at me, instead was looking like she was looking for something beyond my shoulder. But I always catch her looking when Im not looking. ???? what the heck does this mean? damn.. i like her though. Shes hot. I dont know how to approach her. Any thoughts? Opinions? Advice?

2007-01-23 17:38:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

It seems you have the same work out schedule. The next time she looks at you, smile! If you want to strike up a conversation don't do it while she's breathing heavy on the tread mill! Women don't feel pretty or hot at the gym! Strike up a conversation at the water fountain or linger at your car and make a comment about the weather just as you're getting into your car. Start with just a few words and before you know it you'll be talking. She may be taken, but you'll never know unless you talk to her. Good Luck! =)

2007-01-23 17:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by DB 5 · 0 0

Sometimes the direct approach is best - just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs.
Behavior
Instructions
•STEP 1: Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question. Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
•STEP 2: Is this person "accidentally" running into you in places where he or she knows you will be, such as at your desk? At the Laundromat on Tuesdays? At your brother's birthday party?
•STEP 3: Make a note if he or she mentions future plans to spend time with you: "That band is coming to town soon. We should really get tickets."
•STEP 4: Spend time alone together. Canceling other plans in order to be with you longer, or not finding excuses to leave, could be a sign of interest.
•STEP 5: Has he or she been calling for random reasons, such as, "I was wondering if you knew what that pizza place down the street is called," followed by, "Are you hungry?"
•STEP 6: Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something - and it's probably not your stamp collection.
•STEP 7: Observe how the person acts around your friends - he or she might be extra friendly to your closest pals for a reason.
Body Language
Instructions
•STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you?
•STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same.
•STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction.
•STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek?
•STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms.
•STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?

2007-01-24 03:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0 0

sounds like she is potentially interested yet answer me this how many girls do you check out in a day? im sure alot i kno i do. so If she thinks your hot or w/e then you have to choices just be upfront walk up tp her when she is running and pop a noticed you cheking me out line etc or you can go and be polite and say hey blah blah blah im boring i go with first one it really breaks the ice and gives you both something to laugh and or flirt about

2007-01-24 01:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by tobosahge 2 · 0 0

u r really coward n silly,u'd lost many chances to talk with her then.well,u can approach her now n try to chat with her or take her 4 a drink in a cafe.then try to develop the relationship to move in further.of course u must be friendly n sincerely to invite her in ur first move in order to impress her well.good luck.

best wishes.

2007-01-24 01:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0 0

Yes. Smile next time you see her and say hello. She might surprise you and say Hi back. If she blows you off, walk away and forget her.

2007-01-24 01:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 1 0

you need to make eye contact with this girl, give her a sweet smile, mabie even a little wink and see what happens. If she smiles back and blushes a little, you are in!

2007-01-24 01:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by MEESH 3 · 0 0

Forget your ego and smile at her the next time you catch her gaze. She could be interested in you!

2007-01-24 01:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0 0

meet her eye, briefly. give a slight smile and a little nod. if she nods back, then smile wider. take the signals from there.

if you don't get a nod back, then stay cool.

2007-01-24 01:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by snickersmommie 3 · 0 0

dont be so stubborn and say hi...it sounds like she likes you but you wont give her any sign that you know she's alive...if you wont say hi you could always give her a smile and take it from there...

2007-01-24 01:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by jmclean1 2 · 0 0

hie ya!i myself have gone thru wat u r!its better tat u approach her!u cnt jus b waitin 4 her 2 tak d step first!jus introduce urself 2 her...n den its up2 her!if shes interstd she would respond or else 4get it!she wnt ofcourse slap u 4 tat!!!i dnt think she wud say no!jus b friends vit her n den c wats in store 4 u!al da best man!but remember keep ur attitude on!

2007-01-24 01:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by varsha 1 · 0 0

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