I have never had one decent girl have a crush on me. They were all extremely obese and greasy. Am I really that ugly? I don't think i am. But who knows :(
P.S. Could it be the way I dress?
2007-01-23 17:38:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont have any of those except pubic hair but no one can see there :)
2007-01-23 17:41:34 · update #1
i could it be because im nice to them? ive never insulted them or anything ive always helped them out. i help everyone out.
2007-01-23 17:43:23 · update #2
no. just because ugly people like you doesnt mean that you are ugly! the right girl will come eventually.
2007-01-23 17:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its probably a combination of the way you dress, your grooming and your level of self-confidence.
Get a platonic female that you trust and have her give you some advice. Take the advice.
Alternately - read magazines for both guys and girls - Cosmo, Maxim, that type of stuff. Get dress and grooming tips from the 'lad mags' and how to approach and treat a girl from the 'chick mags'.
Self-help books on style and relationships can be found in bookstores too. Don't buy them, just get a cup of coffee and sit down and browse for ideas and tips.
Good luck, dude. If you were in my neck of the woods, I'd help you out - but take the above advice and use it!!
(Oh, and don't call girls 'obese' and 'greasy'. Judgmentalism is never attractive, even if you think it is true).
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2007-01-24 01:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by cyclgrrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say that maybe you have a great personality and these girls feel safe around you, but after you called them "obese and greasy" I doubt that's the case.
2007-01-24 01:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know who has had a crush on you? Most people don't tell you if they have a crush on you. I'm sure a cute girl had a crush on you, she just didn't tell you.
LMAO & obese & greasy. Too funny!
2007-01-24 01:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be just the opposite. You could be so cute that every woman thinks that you have another woman more attractive then them.
I dont know how old you are but life will change drastically when you go to college!
2007-01-24 01:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by onestepbeyond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post a pic. How can we know if we cant see you? But its most likely not your looks. You just gotta learn to charm the ladies. Look up "NLP seduction" and/or "Ross Jeffries" on the internet. U can learn a lot from it.
2007-01-24 01:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be the way you dress, how you carry yourself, how you feel about yourself or even how you express yourself. Ugliness manifests itself in many ways. Talk to a friend who can be honest with you.
2007-01-24 01:45:01 · answer #7 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try some different things... what you feel on the inside i'm thinking is what girls see most about you and you should get some self confidence, with out this you have it like it is right now :) :) :)
2007-01-24 01:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you don't talk to the pretty girls that you want to like you, but instead, you talk and are nice to the ugly obese ones. therefore, they'll be attracted to you.
2007-01-24 01:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by Luciya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you make them feel comfortable about being around you and they think you are interested in them..
2007-01-24 01:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋