I'm 30 and single i'm well build and not to bad looking, say me ofcourse but women just ignore me
2007-01-23 17:33:36 · 31 answers · asked by mackie m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe cuz you are too good looking ;)
2007-01-23 17:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by Waythere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman are attracted to confidence. although build and looks will get you some places girls what a guy that is confident in himself; if you aren't how can she be? nice guys don't always finish last but they often times find the wrong girl. also, are you sure you haven't screwed up relationships in the past? i know i gripe about girls a lot but then again i look back on my 20's and see a lot of good ones that i ran off. keep looking dude you will win eventually when you're time is right.
2007-01-24 01:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by David W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason nice girls finish last. Men want a thrill and women want the bad boy. It also seems the "nice" people never seem to find one another attractive. Maybe the nice people are looking for someone that is different then themselves. Who knows.
2007-01-24 01:38:49 · answer #3 · answered by Issym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look it not you, it them girls still have a thing for a bad boy, i had both and bad boys are fun in weird way. yet the good ones are loving and caring dependable . that some times gets boring . I'm 39 and have 4 men in my life that i dated 2 i married the other just dated. got lucky cause we are still friends tell this day., u need not to drop u goals in a women . cause if they want u then they try to keep up with u remember always love your self first
2007-01-24 01:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by wildsexydreamer69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually because the women around you don't find you exciting. If you don't arouse anything in them, they will keep ignoring you.
Your personality is at least as important as your looks.
Nice guys also tend to act "wimpy" because they've been taught a bunch of lies that equate nice with never asserting themselves or taking initiative in relating to women.
2007-01-24 01:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will put it to you like this ..........................,,,,,,,,,,,,, i think the reason that nice guys always finish last is because the butt head guys are the ones who step up and take action in what they want and when they get it they leave that is one reason why nice guys finish last another is becasue us woman always fall for the bad boy and then regret it after anyway i know i do i wish i had a nice man who will make me be in a compitition with his family i belive that woman sholud come first in there mens life untill they have kids then they should be first then the woman ...............but i guess i am just old fashion .............. and to help with your question NICE GUYS FINISH LAST BECAUSE THAT IS WHERE THEY ALWAYS STAND IS BEHIND EVERYONE . take a stand and be infront for a change good luck
2007-01-24 01:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by shannon l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is ask the women you do know (family, co workers, friends) what it is about you that you could change to attract women to you.
If you dont feel you can do that perhaps there is some kind of support group in your area you could join (mixed men & women) where you could work on this problem. The point is YOU have to put yourself out there and do something about it, take risks, speak up, let yourself be known before anything will change.
2007-01-24 01:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try some of the older Women. They've already been through the not so nice guys, and are ready to play with the real Men.
2007-01-24 01:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, its not only about being a nice guy.get an attitude.you got to merge some confidence.no girl wants a nice looking dumb guy.
don't expect women to chase you.you gotta make your move if you find some one interesting. just be a nice strong man who can support a girl emotionally and financially, and good things will happen to you.
but for heaven's sake don't just sit there expecting women to fall on your lap.
2007-01-24 02:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being nice and being shy are two different things, yo!
And if "shy" isn't the problem, then it's what you say or do that just isn't right. You need to find a way to smooth out your choice of lingo or subject when you engage in conversation.
2007-01-24 01:38:06 · answer #10 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like that in a lot of peoples view...but you time will come... Most girls like the bad boy types, it takes a few of them to make a lady think maybe I am going for the wrong type, then that is where you come in, just be ready...
2007-01-24 01:37:37 · answer #11 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋