Have date with girl have seen about 3 dates now. All the previous ones have been dinner or drinks.
There is a movie she wants to see (comedy) but she saw a movie last night. Shall I take her anyway or to stand-up comedy which will be fun, but will be crowded and you have to stand for 3 hours
2007-01-23 17:33:19 · 7 answers · asked by afterdinnermint 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Generally speaking, dates where you cannot spend most of the time talking to the woman are not good dates. The whole point of dating is to get to know what kind of person you're dealing with. That said, I think the dinner/movie would give a better atmosphere for conversation. But the stand-up comedy might be too crowded for comfort. I'd go for the movie. If she likes you, I don't think she would mind going to a movie as long as it isn't the SAME one she saw last night. The comedian might be good too, except for the crowd. For future reference, remember that you want to spend time face-to-face and not staring at a screen or a comedian. Once probably won't hurt much, but if you do this regularly you will lose the majority of your time by not talking/listening to her. Good night!
2007-01-23 17:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When picking a movie to see with a date, include your companion in the decision-making process. Check reviews, look at critics' blurbs in ads and ask friends for their opinions. Consider the theaters involved, then make the choice together.
Instructions
•STEP 1: Agree on an approximate meeting time and decide if you will be sharing a meal before or after the movie.
•STEP 2: Check the movie listings to see what options are available.
•STEP 3: Discuss reviews, critics' quotes in ads and friends' opinions about the films you are considering.
•STEP 4: Consider the theaters as well. Pick those that are safe, comfortable and within a reasonable distance.
•STEP 5: Talk about the kinds of movies you are in the mood to see.
•STEP 6: Try to reach consensus without putting pressure on your partner.
•STEP 7: Make a deal if you cannot agree. The person who gets to choose this movie must go along with the partner's choice next time.
•STEP 8: Get to the theater at least 10 minutes early. If you picked the film, offer to buy your partner a soft drink.
Tips & Warnings
•Certain friends can be great sources for amateur movie reviews. Pay attention to people you usually agree with. On the other hand, if someone who doesn't share your taste pans a film, it might be a winner.
•To really impress your date, do some research online to decide whether or not a film is worth seeing.
•Make a good impression by driving a bit farther to see a unique film in a good theater with excellent restaurants nearby.
•If a movie is nearly sold out, pick another film. This option is better than sitting in the first row and leaving two hours later with a sore neck and an irritable companion.
•Never force your date to see a movie you know he or she will hate.
•Avoid theaters that attract dangerous characters, particularly at night.
•If all the critics' blurbs in a newspaper ad come from radio and television critics, the movie may be shallow and forgettable.
2007-01-23 19:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl tells you that she wants to see a comedy movie, chances are she's expecting you to bring her there? Why risk the crowded stand-up comedy which she may not like? If a girl tells you she wants to eat fried chicken, do not give her roast chicken instead. Be attentive and you can bring her to stand-up comedy eventually.
2007-01-23 17:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanna comprehend what type of date could be relaxing? Going to an Arcade or a miniture golfing direction. those varieties of places are relaxing, interactive and in many circumstances a large time. i'm 37 and now and returned discover myself at Chuck E Cheese or the community arcade for some rapid relaxing. Do you like laser tag? yet another large date. have relaxing!
2016-11-01 03:34:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to dinner and then the live comedy show. she'll love it!
2007-01-23 17:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by linderlou2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to a movie
2007-01-23 17:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by Waythere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant you ask her what she wants to do? arent you in the comfortable zone to ask questions like this?
2007-01-23 17:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by itshellhot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋