What was I thinking having a one night stand? I was drunk and can't even remember half of it?

Question

WHY did I do this? Is this at all normal? I am a horrible person!

Answer 1

Just don't do it again and you'll be OK. There isn't really anything you can do about this now except to learn not to do it again. If getting drunk makes you lose all your common sense, just don't drink alcoholic beverages. Good night!

Answer 2

I've done this quite a few times...Actually more then Many times.I found that after awhile I wanted someone that would stay with me.You might feel this way.As a single person it's only natural to be lonely at times I suppose.Most of us need sexual stimulation and if you don't then you're not the normal human being per say.
Yes it may be true you can masterbate one self for ones own pleasure,but still in some aspects another human beings touch is much better.Its always nice to share the way you feel with someone else joined together as long as you're both for it.
I'm sure you agree.And you're not a horrible person as long as you're not horrible to other people around you personality wise.
If someone thinks you're horrible that's just there opinion and they have no right to judge you cause they don't know truley personality was.Just because you chose to be passionate doesn't mean they should judge that as your personality.It could be normal to you if you do it all the time.

Answer 3

you are not the first and certainly not going to be the last person to have a drunken one night stand you are not a horrible person you just got too drunk, are you on the pill?? do you know if you used protection?? life is a learning process well all make mistakes and maybe even a few regrets but just learn from your experience next time you go out and party take some friends with you that you can trust and minimise havin one night stands again. cheer up sweety im sure everything will work out in the end.

Answer 4

It depends on a couple of things. How old are you? If you are an adult then no. Are you married or in a relationship. If not, then no, you are not a horrible person. You are human and we have these urges! It is natural. As long as it does not hurt another person and you used protection, don't beat yourself up about it. If it makes you feel like a horrible person, learn from that and don't do it again. If you can't stop yourself when you are drinking then QUIT drinking. Good luck.

Answer 5

I think it would be a horrible thing to wake up the next morning and not remember what you did the night before. I can only imagine what you're going through, but maybe you can talk to a girlfriend, or your mom if ya'll are close. I know my mom is my #1 go to person for support. I guess just try to learn from your mistake and be careful next time, i mean..what else can you really do, ya know? I'm sorry again for what happened.

Answer 6

You're not a horrible person, you probably just felt a little more lonely than usual and this is something you really needed to help you through the moment. Its not normally you obviously, but it is what you needed. Don't regret it, for a brief moment your needs were satisfied.(and believe me, way more than your sexual needs were addressed) Just as all the others above me said though, I agree, get tested, be safe and if you feel the need to go there again, be safer, be sober, and choose someone that at least interests you enough so you don't feel soo worrisome afterwords. Who knows, you might even enjoy the experience!

Answer 7

FIRST OF ALL.. You are not a horrible person!!! It may not of been a smart choice, but you were DRUNK. When you drink it completely takes away your judgement, and that's why you have to be careful. Thats why I choose not to drink plus I'm sorta saving myself till marriage.. But this doesn't mean you can't just have soda next time right ;). I think sometimes its common that people forget the results of drinking, just don't next time! You don't need to drink to have fun! (and at least you'll remember the fun you had when you don't drink, and best of all you can control it!) Take care I hope you're ok, just be careful, for your own saftey most importantly!

Answer 8

Happens to the best of us! Really don't think you did it becuz you were drunk...you did it becuz you were turned on, feeling sexy, and the alcohol just gave you the courage to go for it and lose any inhibitions but without thinking of the consequences. If you were gonna take that kind of risk, it's a shame you do not remember enough to perhaps know how good it was. Next time, find something safer. Be careful out there.

Answer 9

If you want to live a happier, drama free life, remember something.

It's always better to stay in, watch a good movie and eat some popcorn in the safety and comfort of your home, than go out and meet trash that would take advantage of you with a one night stand.

Guys that do it a few hours after meeting a girl are filth and do not respect you.

Answer 10

Get yourself a good vibrator to eliminate some of your urges for unsafe sexual encounters. Stop drinking alone and if you must drink, make sure that your are in the presence of people whom you know well and who will think more of your personal safety and of their own reputations than to encourage that type of behavior before you get under the influence of alcohol. No. You are not a horrible person. You made a mistake. Get tested for pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases as soon as possible and do not make that mistake again. Best wishes.

Answer 11

Calm down. You'll live. You're not a horrible person, we all make mistakes. Just be more careful next time you drink and limit yourself. Also, if you're really concerned health wise (and don't know where he stands on STDS, etc), then go to the doctor and get yourself checked out. It can't hurt.