2007-01-23 17:19:19 · 16 answers · asked by niceguy2272884 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason I ask is because I'm writing a book on girls at bars. Sounds strange but I think I might have something. Who knows though. Just asking questions to as many girls as I can and though maybe I could get some good material here.
2007-01-23 17:28:25 · update #1
Make eye contact and say "Hi" with a smile. If he doesn't respond, I leave it alone.
2007-01-23 17:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely eye contact, but not constantly staring...perhaps a few furtive glances with just a hint of a smile. Don't want to look desperate...just mildly curious or interested in the possibilities. Once you've made eye contact 2 or 3 times, make sure you are positioned whereby it's easy for him to walk over to you to start a conversation.
If this doesn't work, stop hanging out at bars trying to find guys you like. They know why you're there.
Be safe!
2007-01-24 01:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more attracted I am to someone (anywhere, not just in bars), the more I ignore them.
If I do look at them (and trust me, I will look - if only for a moment), I keep a very straight face and look away quickly. No smiles, no signs.
So how would a guy know? (Other than maybe noticing my glance)
He doesnt.
Therefore the guy has to take his ***** in hand and make a move.
If he doesnt have the nerve or desire to do so, good. He has just weeded himself out, with no trouble to me.
A guy who is seriously attracted will find a reason to make a move, signals or no signals.
A guy who is responding to 'come hither' signals may just be looking for an ego boost or a booty call.
No thanks.
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2007-01-24 01:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by cyclgrrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take out my false teeth, stick two fingers in my mouth to whistle real loud so he can here me. I know he can't see me from that far away. Just kidding. You should try to make eye contact, and touch your hair. It makes you look approachable.
2007-01-24 01:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by Pat C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't go to bars but if I was in that situation, I'd probably smile or something like that.
2007-01-24 01:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you catch her looking at you more than twice, she most likely has a reason to be looking at you
and lets just hope its because she thinks your cute
2007-01-24 01:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by tickles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm over 60, so I give you my advice from my experiences. Just tell him.
2007-01-24 01:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by robertonereo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is ok to but the guy a drink and at that point i think he would get the hint
2007-01-24 01:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by hazel2nuts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by sticking their butts in ur face and letting u take a wiff
2007-01-24 01:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont like guys in bars.
2007-01-24 01:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by Frank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋