What do we do???? What is our purpose?? I'm oblivious to these types of things....what are we supposed to do?
2007-01-23 17:15:33 · 16 answers · asked by Rene C House 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're supposed to be judging the type of woman you're with, to determine if she is the type of woman who you can get along with for the rest of your life. In the process, you two are supposed to be kind to each other and help each other where it is appropriate. It's really very simple. Good night!
2007-01-23 17:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship can only keep him from getting the job he wants if he makes it the reason. In other words, there is no reason that your relationship should keep him from getting hired anywhere. There is no reason for him to even let a future boss know he is in a relationship, so how could it prevent him from getting the job? In addition, the larger issue is that him saying that places the job above the relationship. A relationship is potentially for life, but a job is replaceable. There are many more employers he could work for than people he could be in love with. I think he's using the relationship as an excuse, when the real reason he is losing one job and may not get another lies with him. There is something about him that gets in the way of his employment. And he's not treating you very well if he's going to blame you for not being able to get the new job. Think about it. How could it possibly be your fault?
2016-05-24 03:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A boyfriends job can be summed up into five principles: 1. Love. 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Communication! Try following my 5 biblical principles for finding your soul mate: Ask yourself:
1. Does she love you for who you are (inside first than out)? The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
2. Does she honor you? Will she do things just to make you happy? Will she try some of the things you are interested in or maybe shares some of the same interests and hobbies? The Bible says:
* “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10
3. Cherishes your body, mind and soul? Doesn't go to far on these things until your ready? The Bible says: * “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4
4. You trust her to the fullest? She is your best friend and you are hers? The Bible Says: * “ Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7
5. You communicate well? She understands you like he could be your twin? The Bible says: * “ Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29
I promise if your relationship is based on these things you will know what its like to find true love! And Yes! I have used my principles myself and I am convinced I have found my soul mate! But to find her I also used these same principles to weed out my soul mate from the relationships that just didn't work. In addition, letting God and Jesus Christ lead your heart, mind, body and soul also aid in the weeding process. God Bless!
2007-01-23 17:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
job?? lol you make it sound terrible.
let your girlfriend know how much you love and care for her, be her shoulder to cry on (even though she has no reason to cry) give her suprises every now and then... a massage, flowers you picked from someone's garden, make her dinner/breaky, go have a picnic together, ring her, snuggle her when its raining, give her your jacket when she's cold, look after her when she's sick, notice her new haircut, dont drool over other girls while we're with you (do it in your own time), dont biatch about chick flicks just pretend to like our movies and we'll do the same for you, clean up after yourself, ask how her day was and listen!!, support her in what she wants to do/be,
2007-01-23 17:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boyfriends job is treat you, Liston to you and have fun time with you ( clubs, cinema)
many things depend for which kind of guys you walk with him, some of them don't deserve 1 minute of your time, but in anther hand there are many many Good guys, understand and respect his girlfriend
don't look for the faces but look what they have inside them hearts.
2007-01-23 17:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are asking this question you shouldnt be in a relationship. foloow your heart. treat her the way you want to be treated. conversate with her, hold her, make her feel safe, do things for her like she does for you, love her. is it really that hard that you have to ask?
2007-01-23 17:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by linderlou2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be there for your girl and for her to do the same to you. to get to know her on a whole nother level. the other things youll learn along the way
2007-01-23 17:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by Waythere 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
buy the gifts,say the 4 letter word with regular intervals and take them wherever they need to go...think thats our job...
2007-01-23 17:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by ajredd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are supposed to eventually be a lifelong companion.
2007-01-23 17:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
to be there for his girl, listen, encourage, love, understand, trust , watever comes fromur heart
2007-01-23 17:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by punkbaby94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋