How to get over him!!?

Question

I dont know if I'm over my ex boyfriend or not. Can someone please tell me a way to tell if I'am or not and maybe how to get over someone.

Answer 1

If you ask this question... you are not over him. I don't know what happened to cause this situation.... you didn't provide details.
But one thing is for sure...

You, sweetness, are upset, and in pain.

I don't know your age...
but to answer your question, I suspect you are young.

Always remember this....

the feelings you have now....

trust me..

are real.

Yet... they will come to an end.

Be strong, respect yourself.
You, have so much to offer....

and this is important...
to the "right man".

A "real man" will love you...
for who you are...
and nothing else.

The pain you now feel..
is only temporary.

I know, it feels like forever..
but it's not.

Be with your "true" freinds...
have fun... enjoy being with each other!!

That way, you will get "over" this...

and you will find out something about yourself....

That you...

are a wonderful, beautiful woman.

On the inside...

where It counts.

Good Luck!!
Best Wishes..... :D :D :D

Answer 2

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Answer 3

If your asking this question your not. That's okay. You need time to get over losing a relationship. The key is to not let him know it. Don't call him, etc. Find a hobby. Maybe go for a long walk everyday and let your mind rest. Don't let it stop your life. Get out and about with your girlfriends. Remember, the best revenge is living well. So, make your life better than it was while you were together. Do nice things for yourself. Cheer up--You'll find Mr. Right! You just have to kiss a lot of frogs first!

Answer 4

You can tell if you are over him when you can identify all of the things about him than you liked when you were together without getting upset and emotional and if you can identify all of the things that annoyed you about him, with honesty, without getting angry all over again. When you realize that the relationship you had is really and truly over, you will begin to ignore physical symptoms of "love addiction", defer sexual urges to a more socially suitable partner so that you do not get hurt again and make decisions with your head and not with your feelings of the moment. You MUST do this or you will be very miserable for a long long time. Let him go! He is not worth another minute of your time and trouble. Life is too short to waste on someone who does not return your interests and devotion to him with love and committment. Best wishes.

Answer 5

First off, if you "don't know" if you're over your ex-boyfriend or not, then that means that you aren't.

From my experience, the best way to get over a break-up is to stop thinking so much about that person and get out there and start meeting new people. You'll find that once you start doing this you'll slowly start to get over your ex and once you meet a guy that you like, you'll barely be thinking about him anymore.

Also, if you live in the Jacksonville area feel free to send me some photos of yourself. If they are to my liking, I'll consider letting you give me your phone number and maybe we can get together and help you get over your boyfriend. ;)

Answer 6

i went through the same thing. if not worse. love isnt a bad thing. if u love someone u should exept it and move on with it. dont do anything. What can u possibly do???? u love him.. or think u love him... but hes not there. i loved someone from the age of 15 to 19 and maybe still doo.. and i thought i would die for him.. but it turns out i needed to get a life. i had to make my life happen. i knew i loved him.. but i tried to work and study and workout and join a class or somethin.. a yr later i found someone who actually shows me what its like to love. and i hope i never lose him. and if i do.. i would be sad but i would try to remember that god closes the window only to open another. everything happens for a reason. dnt waste ur time on someone who wont waste their time for u. in the end its u that has to love and respect ur self. if ur successful and happy everone would want to be around u. go ahead and live ur life. u only live once. u need someone who can treat u like the princess that u are. take it one day at a time.

Answer 7

this what i feel is a good way to tell. keep your self from him for a time like go out with your Friends or find a hobby to do. after awhile when you see him if you still feel that pit in your belly and your heart still hurts as much. then most likely your not over him some times it hurt real bad to let go. hope this helps been there it take time to heal wounds of the heart

Answer 8

Time sweetheart. Only time will help you get over someone. Keep yourself distracted until some time can pass and you can look at it from a point of perspective. People say Hindsight is 20/20. Allow yourself to get some hindsight.
God luck and God bless.

Answer 9

I had your same problem.... i broke up with my boyfriend and i was like well then ill just find another boyfriend and then maybe ill forget about the last one. it didnt work. it was horibble i lead one guy on while still being totally hung up on my ex. finally i broke up with him and blamed it on school and family problems. i guess the moral is untill your ready to move on.... you cant. if you still smile when you think about him your not over him. if you still whish he was the one calling every time the phone rings your not over him. i guess one day you just wake up and relize that your over it and all hope is gone. but see how he feels. things could work out. i mean they did with me we got back together. so i mean nothing is impossible he might feel just like you do.

Answer 10

If you're over him, you won't have those "I wish I was still with him" thoughts and you won't obsess about him; basically you'll have an "I can care less" attitude, more or less.

If you're not, just go spend time with some good friends/people. That seems to be a good cure, that was mine.