ive been dating my boyfriend for a little over a month. Hes changing schools for me but this one guy that i like just last year came back to my school and we've been talking and he's even trying to get me to brake up with my boyfriend for him. we like more of the same things then me and my boyfriend. What should i do.
2007-01-23 17:10:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about how your current boyfriend will feel when he transfers schools for a girl that dosnt even like him. dont do that to him. tell him how you feel and soon!! then follow your heart. in the break up i woudnt mention that your leaving him for another guy..... i dont think that would help your situationl.
2007-01-23 17:16:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of your boyfriends' unhappy situation, you've lost interest in him and have found someone else. If you're in school, relationships come and go. You can't take them as seriously as marriage. But dumping the boyfriend while he's down is mean. Cool your ardor for the new guy, and at least be available as a good friend to your boyfriend. (You don't have to tell him "we're friends now", I mean just be there for him and support him.) When your boyfriend's troubles have lessened, you can try to get with the other guy, if he's still available. If not, it's a shame to have missed out, but it's better to behave decently to your current guy than to dump him in a rush when he has family problems.
2016-05-24 03:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a crush on this other guy and like him more, get it over with quickly and get with him now. Don't just wait, wait, wait, always bearing a crush towards, them, and then finally dump your boyfriend a year from now. Whatever you do, decide now. Trust me I've been in a situation like that (although it was with girls, lol) and if you just wait, wanting to see what develops, ultimately you'll end up cheating with both of them.
2007-01-23 17:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what the guy u like says. U are going through the same thing I went through last year.
2007-01-23 17:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shoulf fallow your heart but if your heart is like alot more people's heart that i know is that not always fallowing the heart is the right thinh because i did and only got hurt in the long run ............. i say if you truly don't want the guy you are with then be honest and let him go so he can find someone to love him for him if you want the guy you like then go for it just do me a favor (i know you don't know me but do this ) don't lie and date both and tell them that you need to talk and if the guy you are with says it is ok then walk away don't try to get him to talk about it because i have learned guys don't like to talk about how they feel well good luck and please be honest with him and with your self
2007-01-23 17:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you tell the guy you are dating to not make the move if you don't want him?
If he is really coming back at your request, you need to think things over.
2007-01-23 17:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you need to tell your current boyfriend that you like another guy, but I think he might be angry at first, but I hope you 2 have to communicate first, before you do anything.
2007-01-23 17:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
2007-01-23 17:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by Malice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever you want. go with the guy you like most.
2007-01-23 17:14:12 · answer #9 · answered by sellatieeat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DATE BOTH the guys and no need to take a decision in a haste.
See who has a bigger -----------; who smells better, who treats you better .................. and than make up your mind.
2007-01-23 17:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋