i was dating this girl and talked everyday, had a lot of fun and never argued. recently she asked me to give her space though. it's been 5 days now...how much longer should i wait? and then should i text her or something? and what should i say in the text? like "just want to say hi, have good day" or something like that? please give me some examples! i really miss her and it hurts to wait..
2007-01-23 17:08:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would just give her some space,and dont bug her too much,and if shes making you wait too long than tell her that you really like her , and ask if she really likes you.and if she does and still wants her space,just talk to her in an un-romantic way,sorta like a friend.
2007-01-23 17:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by Luciana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh how hurtfull! Be careful about this, if you push too hard, she may break up with you, but at the same time, if you leave her completely alone she will think you don't care. She really does want her space a little, and/or she is kindof testing how faithful you are. If you spend every free moment together, she is gonna get tired of being around you, and the 'togetherness' will lose it's shine. I dated a guy who called me 5 times a night after we got out of school, and I never had a chance to hang with my 'girlfriends' because he was always there and I never ever got to talk to my best friend about basic girl chat because he was always there. and it started ticking me off, so I asked for some space and he didn't give it, and pushed me more, so I broke up with him. He didn't even leave me alone for 5 days, he texted every hour, called at least 6 times a day, followed me everywhere, and i really hated it. I think after 5 days it would be okay to text something like "hey, just wondering how your day is going. later" or "have a good day, okay" don't get too mushy like "I miss you" or "I wanna see you" that will scare her off more. or just a plain "hi" will do. I'm dealing with this kindof stuff right now, so you are really getting in the girls side here!
2007-01-23 17:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can text her and say " just checking to see if you are ok, I am here if you need me". Then just wait and see. Hopefully it would work.
2007-01-23 17:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by Trese 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,just go up to her and ask her something...
2007-01-23 17:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by Deanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure email her, asking her to please indicate when she's had enough space. Because you'd very much like to see her. ;)
2007-01-23 17:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋