I have been dating a guy that works for the same company as I for about 5 months. Whenever we're together we have a great time, we've never had sexual intercourse with one another, but we've had oral sex.
One day he calls and tells me that he really enjoys being with me and that he wants to really give and share himself with me in the spiritual sense...so I thought everything was fine...and we would continue our friendship.
My problem began when I would call him and he wouldn't return my calls for days at a time. After the holidays he brought my xmas gift to my job a pair of diamond earings and necklace. I eventually brought his gift to my office and gave it to him...I don't know if he even likes his gift, he doesn't call anymore, and sometimes he will take my calls and other times he won't.
Now he keeps telling me he MUST talk to me about something..I don't know what happened ...why did he dump me? I think I deserve an answer but he now tries to avoid me.
2007-01-23 17:08:20 · 6 answers · asked by Ebonee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you need is closure. He dumped you and didn't tell you why. I think you two shared a lot with one another and that is the very least he should offer to you.
Cut your losses and move on and be glad that you got out now. Just think, it could've been 2 yrs.of dating this guy and not getting any closure. Now imagine how bad you'd feel? Count your blessings.
I wish you luck.
2007-01-31 15:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by gnuck gnuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seem like he doesn't really know what he wants. He is only using you as a spare tire. I think he has feeling for someone else but he still wants his cake and eat his ice cream too. you better off just forgetting about him and move on. Find someone who will appreciate you. It seem like all men love to avoid the tuff emotional questions. I hate when that happen. If he really wants to be with you then he would not be playing all this game.
2007-01-31 23:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by sunkrist28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wild guess here, but matbe he was willing to wait for you because he really liked you, but still wanted sex. So, he had another girl on the side who would have sex with him, and now she is pregnant and he feels obligated to stay with her or doesn't know what to do.
2007-01-30 12:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and get him to tell you why he dumped you when things were great.
2007-01-31 22:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by MiMi//Janie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything was not great for him. My guess would be that he wanted sex....
2007-01-27 12:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,i'm sorry,maybe it would hurt you deeply.But to tell you the truth i think he doesnot love you
2007-01-31 22:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by kelen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋