does my ex love me or her boyfriend?

Question

my ex said i broke her heart, yet she will still call and hang around with me. i think we talk more then they do. they been dating a motnh and she tells me all about him. she says she is with him cause he is good to her and wont hurt her. sometimes she says things and wants my reaction which i give her saying bad things about him.im thinking now i should not say anyting bad cause she said something about him driving past her house checking up on her then asked my opinion i said thats your business. should i act cool and not chuck in my 2 cents. i want her back, and sometimes she talks like she doesnt want to be with him.but she does not want to get hurt again. i todl her i have changed and wouldnt. we talk like 2-3 times a day.which makes me think this guy hasnt got much substance cause he does what ever she says. what should i do, back away or continue to talk to her so i can get her back.she knows iwant her back but i feel like her security blanket. she did want to marry b4 we split.

Answer 1

What substance do you have? You are still pining and being second fiddle to her boyfriend. She can tell you anything she wants, it feeds your ego and you'll buy it. Tell her that you don't want to hear about her bashing her boyfriend, because trust me she bashed the hell out of you too to her boyfriend. If she wants you...she needs to end it with him. Show some substance of your own.

Answer 2

HEY---slow down...what in the world are you doing? Why are you in the middle of her life?? It serves no purpose and is none of your business--like you said. You jmust have something better to do or talk about with her. Next time, politely say you are busy and have to go. ...then go. She will control her own life without consulting with you---she is using all this to remain in contact and keep you hanging on for some silly little girl game. Get out of there and quick.There must be more girls around to start talking to and dating. Men do the same thing and it is just as silly. Why do you want her back??? IT's over,get a grip and move on. Be cool, pal

Answer 3

hey i just went through something similar just break it off for about 10 days no contact at all text, phone, email, aol nothing. she will come crawling back when she realizes how much she misses you mine did. we where together for 3 years and she thought she needed to try somethin new so she left me and tried to talk like that i wouldnt talk to her. and now about 10 days later she calls me askin for forgivness and saying how much she misses me we have hung out 2 times since and she is wonderful better then ever. give her time to miss you

Answer 4

Do you have an ex that you're still interested in, but you're unsure if he's still interested? Well, you can find out here.
Steps
1.Talk to him, and if he listens to you without interrupting, and makes little comments about it, he may be interested.
2.Wear new clothes around him and see if he makes any comments like 'Nice shirt, is it new?'. Actually any compliments are good.
3.Steer the discussion to the stubject of your breakup. Does he ever say things like, 'What was I thinking?', (referring to the time you guys broke up), or, 'Yea...', and sounds distracted by remembering the fact you aren't together anymore? If so, then that's a sign he probably still likes you.
4.See if he calls you a lot just to say "hi". This is a sure sign of interest. If he told you he'd call you at a certain time, but he doesn't, he might call you at a different time, and start explaining why he didn't call you at the time he said he would.
5.Talk about other guys and see how much interest he takes. If he asks you a lot who you like, or if he gets really quiet, he might be jealous. If he asks your friend questions about who you are interested in now, if you talk about him, or other questions like that, he most likely want you back.
6.Ask him who he likes, and if he doesn't respond, doesn't want to tell you, or immediately changes the subject, it's probably you.
7.Look at him in his eyes, and if he looks back (for more than 2 seconds), that's another way to tell.
8.Flirt with him, but not too much, and see if he flirts back. Start a 'Fight', by pushing him or bumping into him, and if he hits back, or tries to get a quick feel on you, he probably likes you.
Tips
•Don't try too hard to make him like you. You can't make someone like you.
•Just act like you always did, even before you went out, and when you were going out. Guys don't like their exes changing when they know they're not like that.
•Try to change up your style a little bit (like different hair, clothes, makeup, perfume, etc.).
•Be polite.
•Flirt a little bit, but not too much, or he'll think you're weird.
•Call him at least every other day, but not too much, you'll make yourself look like a stalker.
•Ask his friends who he likes.
•Ask him who he likes.
Warnings
•Don't be too straightforward, you'll seem desperate and guys don't like that.
•Don't use profanity. Especially if you didn't when you went out with him, and it won't seem like you.
•Don't change too much, he already liked you for who you were if he really liked you when you went out.
•Don't try to hook him up with your friends.
•Don't make up lies to try and make yourself seem like every guy you meet likes you since you two broke up.
•Don't be mean to him.
•Don't talk about anything bad that happened when you went out with him, it'll make him remember all those bad times, and he won't want to go back out with you if there's a chance to.
•Just be yourself, don't pretend to be something you're not.

Answer 5

You need to completely break it off with her or you will end up in a love triangle! Run fast!

Answer 6

she your ex, so it really does not matter how she feel, she with
someone else, regardless of what she saying about him, she
playing games, with you. and as long as you allow her to do this
she will. time to let it go, and move on, other wiise you will be
in this mess.. she looking for excuse to play the game at your
expenses. and his. as well..

Answer 7

Leave her alone just cut it off or else it will just get all Fu+ked up