What would be the best way of punishing her? I don't quite think it would be right to backhand her or anything like that. But I do feel that disciplinary action is warranted. Any suggestions? Thanks.
2007-01-23 17:02:49 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump her and move on to another person.
2007-01-23 17:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by Hmmmmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do agree that you have to dump her immediately and dont look back. But if you want some sweet revenge invite her out to dinner, and make sure you pick her up. Take her out, wait until you have ordered and started the meal then say you need to go to the bathroom. Get up and just leave through the back door or some way in which she wont see you or notice for a while that you are gone and just drive off. That way she is stuck with no ride AND she has to pay the bill. The key to this is that she doenst see you leave and DONT answer you cell phone ever again when she calls and dont return messages. Haha, i wouldnt recommend actually doing this since it is pretty messed up and brings you down to her level, but if you are bent on revenge this is much better than physical punishment.
2007-01-23 17:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Ray G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try catching her RED Handed. Otherwise no need to feel the way you are and by just being her friend you aint got no right to Punish her except for Leaving her without saying a single word and that would be the Biggest punisment.
2007-01-23 17:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely no right way of "punishing" her. You are not married and therefore she can do whatever she pleases, just be glad that you are aware of how she is now and not when you're married with children. Be happy that you are young and have so much to look forward to, all the rest is lessons in life.
Good luck to you
2007-01-23 17:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by wnc861 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Very vengefully person and when I was young I would Always try to get back at those girls who hurt me. It almost Never worked and the One time I Did get even with a chick and hurt her in kind, it Didn't make my own pain go away.
My advice to you is just cut her loose since she can't be trusted. The sad truth is, if she cheats on you, she doesn't give a s--t anyway.
2007-01-23 17:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by thart090 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do you think you are? You have NO RIGHT TO PUNISH HER! If you want to get revenge, just leave her and find someone else and be happy with it. As far as I am concerned, though, I don't blame her for cheating on you. You are an arrogant piece of trash. A**hole!! As long as you think that you have authority over another person who is not your child, you will never have a relationship with anyone that is worth a spit.
2007-01-23 17:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Demand honest answers first of all. If this has been a habit: move on. There are perfectly acceptable and far more honest girls out there.
However, there is always room for human error. If you think you can reconcile, try to. In terms of punishment, simply inform her that she has temporarily lost your trust. That should be punishment enough.
2007-01-23 17:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by Gatsby Follower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs don't make a right. Just leave her. If you're a good man that will hurt her enough. Some women are just stupid and mistreat good men. What comes around goes around, she'll fall in love with someone and he'll probably do the same thing to her.
2007-01-23 17:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, please... to even suggest hitting her, or any other woman, is absolutely ridiculous and if you were to do that you're a punk and deserve to be cheated on again and again. now, if you live in a small town where everyone knows everyone else i would consider beating the **** out of that dude just to serve warning to the next guy who might want to sleep with the next girl you are seeing, that might and i stress might, make other guys respect you a little more. if you live in a larger city where no one knows the two of you that would be completely pointless and stupid too. the solution here is to find a girl who knows the meaning of committment; very rare these days i know, but if you're willing to stay with this chick you are a complete moron.
2007-01-23 17:13:21 · answer #9 · answered by David W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to punish her is to break up with her, move on and be happy not having her around..... if you can show her you are happier with her not being around that will hurt her more than any backhand will ever do... if you want to piss her off, start dating someone she hates.....or date her sister or best friend..... the last two are shitty options, but i would try get her upset by showing you are happier without her
2007-01-23 17:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new girl, and ignore her. If she still likes you, or even if she doesn't it will kill her to see you have so happily moved onto the next girl. Don't even make eye contact with her, because then she knows that you are watching to see what she will do and she will imediatley pick up that you are doin' it to make her mad and/or jealous and she will ruin your reputation if she is a hateful person. I'm going through the same thing right now. My boyfriend cheated on me, dumped me, and now everytime I'm around he starts flirting with the closest girl just to make me mad, but I don't even acknowledge that he is there, and it frustrates him and he drives off.
2007-01-23 17:10:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋