Help! He's my mom's sister's son, by the way.
2007-01-23 15:19:57 · 21 answers · asked by Fatez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Bad girl don't you know about INCEST its morally wrong for you do so....!!!!!
2007-01-26 16:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This boy is your first cousin, and in the civilized parts of the US any union between you is not only illegal but a punishable crime. Don't let this develop any further than it already has, as nothing but legal action and much familial strife can result.
A good guideline for moral behavior is asking yourself if you would be embarrassed if your actions were public knowledge - if people would be happy or wierded out by the news of a romantic relationship between you. Most importantly, think about how your mothers would react if they heard you had asked him out or anything physical had happened.
If you live in a part of the world where this behavior is legal and accepted, go ahead and do what you want. Offspring of such unions rarely have any birth defects.
But all of this is irrelevant if he does not share your interest. He might be wierded out himself if you told him how you feel. Try to put these feelings aside as you would for anyone else who would be unavailible to you - a friend or sister's boyfriend, a teacher, a celebrity. Admire him from afar, if you must, but resist getting too close if you want to avoid serious conflict for everyone.
2007-01-23 19:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mysterious Gryphon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm... i completely understand what you're declaring, and that i trust for you! boys are so demanding to appreciate and we've all felt an same in some unspecified time sooner or later in our lives. :P from what you stated earlier i imagine that you DO have a danger with him, he will be speaking about different women with the intention to get you jealous and if his cousins & acquaintances imagine you adult males like eachother then there's a unique probability that he does :D notwithstanding i do not imagine that you should rush issues, each and every thing will fall into position sooner or later. i imagine that he would experience an same yet would not want to ruin your friendship with him, that's why he advised you that he would not want as a lot as now women till later. he will be declaring that still because he needs to work out yoru reaction to it? idkk i'm hoping each and every thing works out for you i want you the finest of success :D
2016-12-02 23:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries...this is just a faze. I remember having a crush on my cousin...my father's brother's son. We actually had an attraction for each other. It was an unspoken feeling that when we both seen each other we would just be smiling and want to spend lot of time together...we would go to the movies and just sit around and talk. I always thought his wife to be would be very bless to have someone like him. I moved way to a different state...we kept in touch for awhile then lost touch with one another. Many years when by and one day he called me...he was getting married and I was very happy for him...We were really fond of each other and kept our feelings in perspective. I'm now engage to a wonderful wonderful man. My opinion is to keep your feelings as innocent as it should be... remember he's your cousin.
2007-01-23 18:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ok. He is your second, no I feel third cousin. In many cultures a relationship with third cousin is permitted. Even genetically you shall not have any problem because the relationship is from your mother's side, and your mother's sister is married to someone else, remote from your family, I presume. So things should work well, I suppose. The attraction will be more intense, and you will offer and get protection from your cousin.
2007-01-23 16:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some people might think it's gross or you're a freak, but you can't control who you're attracted too. Plus I know someone who married their cousin and had 2 kids together, the kids were normal and healthy. Nothing wrong with being attracted to your cousin.
-Danny
2007-01-23 15:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by Danny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it a tight, close family relationship...........but don't let it go any further than that. I guarantee if you do more you will regret it on down the road. If you let anything happen it will be the end of a really great cousin to cousin relationship.
2007-01-23 16:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is to be limited and not stopped as you will be seei ng eachother very often, Do not over step the limits and enjoy each others company
2007-01-23 20:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you mention crush... What's the problem lady? It's just a crush not love...
:-)
2007-01-23 21:46:44 · answer #9 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see there is nthin bad in havin a crush on ur cousin......if u really love him n tell ur parents abut it, coz there is nuthin bad in lovin a cousin
2007-01-23 21:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by flawless 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Knock it off, he is family!! Nothing can ever happen, you will get over it.
2007-01-24 02:15:38 · answer #11 · answered by Angela C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋