ok! so like many other girls, i miss my ex-bf as well, but at the sametime i want a boyfriend that is not him! Kind of weird but the reason is, that like when we broke up his like lets get back 2gether i love u bla bla bla ok so a few days pass, and i saw him at school holding this other girls hand?? why would he do that, just move on like that, the point is of course he gave me my first kiss that is one the reasons i cannot forget him, but i don't have strong feeling for him to get back,
So what should i do?
ok thats one
the second, is that i know theres like a few guys that have a crush on me, but am just not that type of girl that talks a lot, and so am very quite around guys only! not everyone lol, so i know that they hate that cause who would want to sit with someone that does not talk, not me and thats my problem ok so how should i start moving on to a guy, so he could start moving to me and maybe start something?
plz forgive my spelling but am writing as i think pretty hard
2007-01-23 15:13:25 · 3 answers · asked by I_just_love_it 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Come on any advice?? Cause i did not understand the 1st one sorry!
2007-01-25 18:39:59 · update #1
Your ex bf is just trying to make you jealous. He doesn't like that other girl, and I feel sorry for her because she probably has no clue. I actually have had a crush on a girl that is shy for 3 years now, but I have never done anything about it because she was shy, so I was worried I would talk too much for her. She hasn't really shown an interest in me. I guess my advice is that you don't have to talk to guys, just smile at them and catch their eyes. When he realizes you're looking at him smile bigger, to show that you are interested. Let them talk to you. For them, like with me, it is really hard to talk to a girl for the first time. But when she smiles or does something to open it up, then all of a sudden you are so much more comfortable. A smile is all it takes to get them to come for you. Hopefully I helped and good luck!!!
2007-01-31 14:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by Nathan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so glad that you're not agonizing over your ex and trying to move on! I think lots of guys like quieter girls. As long as you're not passive-agressive, it's actually kinda more peaceful not to be around someone who's talkative and opinionated.
Anyway the best way to get a guy without talking, is to look at him for a bit, and if he looks back at you, smile at him. If he likes you and isn't too shy, he'll come over or figure out that you like him. A really cute flirty move is, if he looks at you, glance away quickly but then look back at him and slowly smile. If you continue to smile at him when you see him, he should get the idea...for some guys they're dense and it takes a few times. If he smiles back, you'll know he's interested, and you could always finally walk over and say hi.
2007-01-23 16:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when guys talk to you, you go and talk too. guys hate it (i think) when girls are acting shy. well of course you'll be shy at first. but don't forget that it would be better if you have conversations with them. it's fun talking to guys.
2007-01-31 15:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋