Why?? Why is life so unfair?? why cant life go the way you want it to?? Why cant things go the way you want??
2007-01-23 15:08:58 · 16 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they just don't. Life isn't meant to be fair. If it was, and everyone got what they wanted, no one would grow inwardly. We'd all become spoiled. You'll move on and learn from the bad times and become a stronger person because of it. You'll make it through these hard times. Have some chocolate, it helps.
2007-01-23 15:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by the_blue_violinist 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Come on, if everything was just the way you wanted it to be, then what would you live for? What would you look forward to? What will you appreciate?
We cannot experience happiness unless we have experienced unhappiness. If we only experience happiness, then we wouldn't be able to distinguish it from anything else (because there isnt anything else), so it would lose its true meaning. You will still be unhappy in the end.
Life needs balance.
Pain is a part of life.
And consider this:
If everyone asked the same question as you, and say, by some magical force, everyone would get what they want from now on.
And lets say you saw a $100 bill on the ground and wanted to get to it first and have it only for yourself. Well see, 3 other people saw it and wanted it for themselves too. Now if everyone gets what they want, who would get the money?
That's right, it wouldnt make sense.
Some things in life are a mystery, but it is well planned out. If you sit down and really think about it, you'll discover that so many other things just fit together like a puzzle, and that everything is made to work out in the end somehow.
Right now, you're just blinded by your anger, and you cant see these things. Take some time to sit down and relax, and just let your mind wander freely. Just..."chill". heh.
:)
Hope I helped!
2007-01-23 23:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by nerveserver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The following book answers your question: "Secrets About Life Every Woman Should Know," by Barbara DeAngelis. If you read that book, you will understand why and also be able to maintain a positive attitude no matter what. It helped me SO MUCH, during a horrible time in my life when I was very angry and felt life was very unfair. The bookstaore can order it for you if they don't have it. It is pretty quick to read, not boring at all. It helps you understand life and how to handle it. I wish u the best!! :)
2007-01-23 23:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If life were easy then u'd have it ur way. But wake up cause unfortunately its not, the sooner u realize and accept that the sooner u'll find that peace ur searching for. Trust me there will be that point in ur life when everything is good but no one is going to spoon feed it to u, and though it sounds harsh, the more u struggle and sacrafice the stronger ull be and the better ull be able to appreciate life. Keep ur head up, i wish u luck!
2007-01-23 23:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by ange_247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life always go the way i want it to. I don't know why it's not working out for u. It's all about making the right choices in life. I wish u luck.
2007-01-23 23:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look back at your life and you'll see that some things do go the way you want them to...just not everything. That's how it works...when things don't go your way and there's nothing you can do about it...just move on and let it go. Start concentrating on the positive and not so much on the negative.
2007-01-23 23:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by little_chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it kinda sucks huh...When it comes to love I always lose. It really sucks..But if life went the way you wanted it to, It wouldn't be life. Life is about learning and growing from your experiences..If life was a piece of cake you wouldn't need to learn nothing and there would be no point to life. When we overcome these hard times.. we learn and grow as a person..I know I have.
2007-01-23 23:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There once was a traveler on horseback, who came upon a dark and misty bog. Beside the bog was a small boy, playing in the water. The traveler asked the boy, "tell me lad, does this bog have a hard bottom?"
"Yes" said the boy, "it does"
So the traveler guided his horse into the water, and almost immediately they began to sink into the muck. Deeper and deeper they went, and horse began to panic.
The traveler, trying to calm his frightened steed, turned to the boy and said "I thought you said this bog has a hard bottom!"
"It does" said the boy, calmly..... "you're just not there yet."
2007-01-23 23:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason I've always recieved was "That's life." Unfortunately, unless we find time-travel out soon (unlikely) or of making everyone on earth perfectly happy (More unlikely) then sadly, it 'is life.'
2007-01-23 23:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremy A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there may be someone that wants something you don't want only their cause is greater. life isn't perfect or fair. eve ate the apple and tada this hellhole called earth was born.
2007-01-23 23:15:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋