ex boyfriend broke up with me on good tems b/c he is not ready for a serious rel/ship yet, so we remain friends&talk when ever we cross paths, but when a guy approaches me at a bar he stears and checks him out, and moves in closer so i can acknowledge that he is watching,i don't know why considering been1 year that we have broken up.most of the men r mates, that's it..one day at a bar i ran into a male friend & we got talking away, i didnt know my ex was behind me & listening but not making it too odvious, he was moving in closer, as my convo with my male friend ended he moved in asked how i was, & who was that I was talking too? i dont understand maybe he is looking out for me?or still has feelings 4 me?I'm not sure.I have strong feelings 4 him still&it seems to me he cant be with me b/c timing not right with him but wants me to still love&hang around 4 him when he is readyhe seems to flirt with girls infront of me,see if i'm looking,i catch him looking at me he looks away witha smile
2007-01-23 15:04:50 · 7 answers · asked by hi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe your ex still isn't ready to see you with another person. There's always a "jealousy" factor even if you break up on bad terms. Talk to your ex about his behavior and see if you can't get an answer. If you don't want a relationship with your ex anymore, you need to let him know, otherwise you should let him know "I'm still interested in you. The way you act around me makes me feel as though you are still interested in me as well and I just want to make sure it's mutual and if not then you know it's safe to move on without hurting his feelings. Good luck!
2007-01-23 15:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Athena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your ex and his minions are saying really is that they want to get back at you for cheating on him. That is normal, guys do that. Just ignore them. If this relationship is the real thing, then this time of crisis is the time to really prove it. It is a shame that the :"soon to be ex-wife" decided to end her life. If she was bi polar or clinically depressed, those who knew her best should have seen the signs and acted on them by getting her help. Sure there may be truth that by him moving on to another relationship it affected her decision, but it was still her decision. All you knew about her was that she was angry at both of you, especially you. The exwife's friends and family are going to blame you because they are mourning and they need someone to blame except her. Someday they may get over it. Some may always and forever hate you for it and you have to accept that. Show a little compassion to them. It will be hard and be really easy to get into arguments with them, but if they start to pick a fight, just bite your lip and walk away. Literally. I have had to do it myself and it works. I feel better when I do and I spare my loved ones the sight of me being in an argument with other people.
2016-05-24 02:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He still likes you. Note the word like, but is still unsure of whether or not to pursue you again. But now he seems to be protecting you? Somewhat discouraging others until he is ready to fire away,
What you should do. Confront him, you don't want to ruin your own chances because of an uncertain male friend now do you?
2007-01-23 15:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by masterscribe888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg sounds like me you should read my last question, wow! just posted it too. his name is not michael is it?
2007-01-23 15:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him
2007-01-23 15:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ride till i die
2007-01-23 15:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by armond425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh GOD... kill me... some people never leave Junior High..... please shoot me
2007-01-23 15:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋