We dated. He cheated. She's pregnant and he is living with her. He still loves me and is still around. I love him but have never told him. I'm scared. Should I tell him?
2007-01-23 15:04:07 · 11 answers · asked by Jazmin QT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I tell him I love him?
We dated. He cheated. She's pregnant and he is living with her. He still loves me and is still around. I love him but have never told him. I'm scared. Should I tell him?
Just to clarify - at first it was me who couldn't commit. He claimed to love me and I was terrified of it. So now I'm kickin' myself - should I?
2007-01-23 15:25:59 · update #1
I would let him go...
2007-01-23 15:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO! He obviously doesn't care about you. Don't give him the satisfaction!
Hunny, I've been there! Just recently, the man I was with for THREE YEARS betrayed me when I called him one night.. Ya know what I heard on his voicemail? Some chick who said he's too 'tied up' to answer the phone.. My heart sank. Right then and there I knew I had to drop that piece of sh*t like a rock. There's no way in hell I'm going to let some man do that to me, then go crawling back to him, begging for him to come home to me. Screw that.
Let your 'x' man sleep in the dog house permanently with his *****. You're too good for him - Believe that.
Just be thankful you found out about his 'cheating' before you wasted your whole life with a total fxcking creep!
2007-01-23 23:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Scorpio X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok why would you want him back ?? I mean he has a kid coming with another woman. I mean you can tell him you love him. But he's gonna use that against ya and only break your heart again. If you take him back ..whats not to say he'll not go and get another chick knocked up. It's a vicious circle..get out now .. If you need someone to talk to contact me. I'll talk to you K.
2007-01-23 23:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! He obviously DOES NOT know the meaning of "love" cause if he loved u he wouldn't of gotten another girl pregnant. You could do so much better!! Forget about that fool!!
2007-01-23 23:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by breezzy468 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! If you really love him go for it the worst thing that can happen is him say no but then you would be right back where you started not dead or anything so just tell him.
2007-01-23 23:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! if he has a lady pregnant u should stay away! hes not a good guy! he cheated on you!!!! thats so mean!!! hes a jerk whos messing aruond with too many ladies, u are strong and independant you dont need him! plus think of the child thats now involved!!!
2007-01-23 23:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Why bother. He is living with her and trying to make it work. Why ruin the small chance he has to give his child a family life.
Be good to yourself and the child to be. Stay out of it now.
2007-01-23 23:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find out what you want with him and act accordingly, saying that you love him or not doesnt change anything
example:
ey, i wanted to tell you something
what
i love you
ok
i also want to let you know that i wouldnt have anything with you because of what you did
ok
(end of convo)
other example:
Hi,
hi
i dont love you
wow youre in denial
other example:
hi
hi
(akward silence)
i hate you
ok?
just wanted to let you know
2007-01-23 23:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by dj nex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might wanna reevaluate how much you've forgiven him first....cuz you might think you've let it go but usually there are still some lingering resentment...also be sure he wont do it again...good luck with dat...
2007-01-23 23:07:33 · answer #9 · answered by unpredictedmystery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could tell him, but hes going to be a father, so u better not
2007-01-23 23:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by pioallergenic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard but u have to let him go...it's best...just move on
2007-01-23 23:14:48 · answer #11 · answered by Mix M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋