I just hurt her feelings i feel so bad?
i did not feel a emotional connection for the girl i went out on a date with there was no connection ther so i told her i do not feel the same way about her that she dose for me and d that there are tons of guys out there for her and that she is a terific person but i just dont feel the connection
will she forgive me
2007-01-23 15:03:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is mature, she will forgive you. What you did was admirable - you told her how you felt, you didn't lead her on. It's now up to her to deal with the pain and she will eventually move on. What you did is much better than what many other people end up doing - just avoiding her at all cost. Kudos to you.
2007-01-23 15:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by Krysta 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need her forgiveness.. You told her the truth, more than some other guys do now a days.. and she should accept that, and move on. If she resents that you told her the truth, (I do not think you were harsh) than she is being silly and if she is trying to make you feel guilty, she is being mean and wants to hurt you. And if she is doing this to you than she does not really like, or love you as she wants you to believe. True Love is unselfish and does not try to hurt in anyway the person loved, spiritually, emotionally or physically. Either way, I do not feel you did anything wrong, and thus you owe her nothing. Good Luck
2007-01-23 15:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are very nice to even care if she will forgive you as most guys dont even care. It sounds like you said what you needed to in the nicest way possible. If she is someone you would like to have as a friend, you can wait a few days, then send her an email, card, letter, etc, with a short note saying that you are sorry it didnt work out but you want to keep her as a friend. That would make her feel much better.
2007-01-23 15:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by lady_daizee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a girls view:::::
It would take me a while to get over the "break-up" but in my heart i would know it was for the best. I would also really consider the way u said it. That was really nice, yet u got ur point across. If she doesn't forgive u then she's missing out on a great friendship. That's her loss, not urs.
Hope i could help.
2007-01-23 15:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by breezzy468 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think any forgiveness is warranted. You were honest in a nice way. I think you handled the situation very well. Honesty is the best policy, it would be harder to drag it on and pretend that something is there that isn't and she would be hurt even more in the end.
2007-01-23 15:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is there to forgive? If you were unkind to her then it would be important to apologize. You simply do not share the same feelings. I feel sorry for her...if you told her the things that you say you did, that was very kind. Good for you. Now,whatever you do.....do NOT lead her on....let her go and say a prayer for her happiness. I'll say one for you.
2007-01-23 15:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's reacting on emotion. She should be fine. If anything she's just reacting this way because no one likes rejection. She should be very happy that you were honest instead of stringing her along.
2007-01-23 15:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by lifeisbeautiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea u dont really need her forgiveness....but if she takes it hard right after u just told her well thats natural...and whats also natural is for her to let it go...if she doesnt "forgive" you....(and you dont need forgiveness)....good call on not going out wit her then...dodged a bullet..
2007-01-23 15:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by unpredictedmystery 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it totally depends on her personality. if she's amiable she'll say, "hey, okay. there are other fish in the sea. bye!" or someone more tempermental might go "i hate you! you broke my heart! blah blah blah....!!!!!" or someone might go in the middle. "you're right. there are MUCH better fish in the sea than what i see right now." u get the picture. i hope she does...but that was a little harsh!
2007-01-23 15:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by skigrrl66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In time... She'll either forgive, forget or just move on which you should do too.
2007-01-23 15:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by Fixitguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋