We have been together for a while and get on very well . The only problem i had was her movements which i don't quite understand .She claims she doesn't have mobile yet she gave my mate one.I went to the use the bathroom and saw her clinging on my mate in his bed .What can i do , people i don't want to saw a seed of hatred amongst us.
2007-01-23 15:02:09 · 14 answers · asked by vegaz6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she gave your mate one,,?
the dirty little slapper,!
2007-01-23 15:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well babes its quite obvious its your friend she'd prefer to be dating. Why are you tolerating this behaviour - from both of them? As your girlfrieend it should be you she wants to spend time with and cling onto - and your mate - well if thats your idea of a mate I would hate to see what you define an enemy as.
You say you love her - well all I can say to you is - why are you settling for treatment like this?? There are hundreds of fantastic girls out there that would love you back - and respect you.
You have to grow a backbone and dump her - shes making a laughing stock out of you. Get rid
xx
2007-01-23 20:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she wants her cake and to eat it. In a relationship partners cannot have the best of both worlds. For a relationship is based on trust, friendship and love, I feel. Confront her and tell her how you feel and go out there and find some different friends to be with, as your mate don't really sound like a friend to you neither if he is playing around with your girl
2007-01-23 19:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by See it as 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is using you for your mate. I have to say confront her and your mate about it. If it is not true then I will apologise. If it is tell me and promise you will dump her. No one deserves a ***** like her if I'm right
2007-01-26 23:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by x cutie x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 03:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real mate , its time to move on !!
2007-01-23 18:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by nicemanvery 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow a pair and dump her
2007-01-23 15:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...GET A ******* CLUE....pardon my french....and if she;s lying to you about having a number....umm hello...she might not be your girlfriend....sorry im a bit harsh but you reread your question...i woulda said with the mobile thing....there might be a logical explanation...she was clinging to your friend?....IN HIS BED????....im sorry but....get a ******* clue...
2007-01-23 15:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by unpredictedmystery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you know the answer mate..
2007-01-23 16:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by pussycatboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fool yourself,she is your mate's g/f not yours!!
2007-01-23 15:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but get shut ..... she would if you was all over her mate
2007-01-23 15:11:51 · answer #11 · answered by mike_oxpierced 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋