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Well, I'm a guy in high school, and I'm really starting to like one of my female friends. I'm not sure if she feels the same way or not. We have really great conversations, and I flirt with her a lot and stuff, but I just can't tell (her body language and stuff are impossible to read). So anyway, I'm a pretty cocky person (but in a funny way, I don't make people dislike me), and whenever I say something positive, like "I am sooo smart," she'll turn it around and say "no, you're not very smart at all." She'll kind of have a half-smile on her face. Today, she came and sat by me on the bus (she usually comes to sit by me, if that means anything) and while talking, I said "I am the most organized man on earth" and she said "no, you're like the most disorganized man on earth!" I know she's just joking, but does this mean anything, or am I over-analyzing??

2007-01-23 14:15:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

4 answers

she LIKESSSSSSSSS YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! any girl who wasnt interested in you, wouldnt bother respoding to your lame statemetsn..

i saw she LIKES YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-23 14:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by iyikka14 3 · 0 0

I truely can't tell you.. it's hard to tell these thing, i know!

Everyone, imean.. my mom, my cousin's gf who is one of my besteset friend, my friends, my teachers.. EVERONE thinks i like (some say "im in love with") my friend because the way i talk about him all the time, and always smile whenever i see him, and always try my best to get beside him in the hall so i cant talk to him... but i DONT!!!

I always talk about him because he's really funny and we talk about so much that every conversation i have usually has something that relates to something he's said in the past. I smile whenver i see him because he has this personality thats like that of an adorabley sweet and innocent little boy and he's hardly ever seen withought this BIG little-kid smile (if you get what im saying) or a funny face and it makes me laugh and smile.. i cant help it. And i try my best to get near him in the halls because last year we had a class together both semesters (1st semester was geometry and second was technology) and this year we didn't have any and he's on restriction alot so he can't get on the computer to talk to me on the internet and we have different lunch periods so i never see him and we have to have 5 word conversations in the halls between classes.. most days all i get is a smile and a wave...

She may just be like this.. or... she may have a HUGE crush on you!

2007-01-23 14:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by janna w 2 · 0 0

Sometimes the direct approach is best - just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs.
Behavior
Instructions
•STEP 1: Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question. Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
•STEP 2: Is this person "accidentally" running into you in places where he or she knows you will be, such as at your desk? At the Laundromat on Tuesdays? At your brother's birthday party?
•STEP 3: Make a note if he or she mentions future plans to spend time with you: "That band is coming to town soon. We should really get tickets."
•STEP 4: Spend time alone together. Canceling other plans in order to be with you longer, or not finding excuses to leave, could be a sign of interest.
•STEP 5: Has he or she been calling for random reasons, such as, "I was wondering if you knew what that pizza place down the street is called," followed by, "Are you hungry?"
•STEP 6: Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something - and it's probably not your stamp collection.
•STEP 7: Observe how the person acts around your friends - he or she might be extra friendly to your closest pals for a reason.
Body Language
Instructions
•STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you?
•STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same.
•STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction.
•STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek?
•STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms.
•STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?

2007-01-23 14:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Christine 3 · 1 0

just ask her out,you never know she may say yes...good luck

2007-01-23 14:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by hazel2nuts 3 · 0 0

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