ladies, I need help?

Question

I've caught myself in a web of mass confusion, and I'm fighting for a way out?

There was this guy and... well there was definte chemistry but we never could approach each other... but all my friends know about this man, and i kept (in my head) picturing instances and imagining friendship... but it will never happen.

so how do i dig out of my grave that i tripped into?? i want to be able to move on, and push him behind my mind... just the fact that my eyes are always looking for him..

how do i pass this phase??

Answer 1

I know, from personal expierience, that this will be very difficult. The first step is getting over him. For as many things you like about him, there are 10 you don't like. Weather you know about them or not, they're still there. Maybe his breath smells, maybe he isn't loyal and cheats, maybe he's failing every class. Mkae him look unattractive to yourself. Then, look around at your guy friends and guys who would like you. Pick out a few and, one at a time, go on dates with them until you find one you like. If you have nothing but spare time, of course you're going to focus on this one guy! If you're on dates, you'll think of the guy you're dating! Then, let him know you don't need him. If you're near him, say things like, "Uhg, you won't believe what my boyfriend did for me!" Honestly, the first step is the hardest. Always have friends help! I hope I helped,
Raine Nicole!

Answer 2

Guys come and go. If one catches your eye, make sure you can snag him! The hot guys usually play hard to get but if you're confident, you can get his attention. You go girl!
Steps
1.Don't show off - let him do that! While you think you may be "impressing" him, guys don't really appreciate when girls show them up!
2.Get to know his friends. Uncomfortable with that? Get your friends to go with you and have a big party!
3.Whenever he's around, make eye contact, but not so much that he gets freaked out. When he catches your eye, smile gently and turn back to what you were doing. If you sit and stare at him all day, this will have a negative effect.
4.For some, flirting comes naturally. If so, flaunt it! If not, start off by plain old introducing yourself. "Hi, I'm Sarah," are the three best words you can use to start off with him.
5.Compliments are great- but make sure they're genuine. Saying, "Your hair is so cool" when it's the bowl-over-the-head cut may get a look that says, "You're such a fake!" Be real! Is he good at art? Tell him! "That's an awesome drawing, Tim!"
6.Get the idea in his head that you're interested, "Do you want to hang out after school?" "I hear some people are going to the mall later. Do you want to come with me?" Or even just sit at his table!
Tips
•Be yourself. This is the number one biggest thing!
•Attract attention to your mouth by licking your lips or biting something. This reminds him of kissing.
•Always blow your nose (not in front of him!) and make sure your face doesn't have anything disgusting on it before approaching him. Look at yourself in the mirror or your reflection in the window if no mirror is around.
•Don't forget to brush your teeth and always ask a friend if you have any food in them before seeing him.
Warnings
•Guys are like fish- it takes practice and it takes patience to catch the right one. If the one you want isn't biting, look around you - there are probably 5 more that desire your attention and wish that you would stop wasting your time on trying to lasso the guy that won't give you the time of the day!
•Always shower before getting "up close and personal".