I cant seem to find a guy who doesnt lie or cheat. i dont know if its just the type of guys i go for, but they all seem to lie all the time, or cheat. i need some advice on finding one that is decent. the past few seem to be looking for a bootie call and thats not me....
2007-01-23 14:04:42 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From personal experience, yes. I am pretty shy though. Give shy guys a chance because, in most cases, they value relationships much more. Also, there is no doubt that a shy guy, once you get to know him, is no less interesting than a very outgoing guy. Shyness has nothing to do with how interesting a person is, but rather indicates that the guy needs more time to get acquinted before he reveals his true personality. So is this guy less "secure", then? Well, yes, shy guys are less secure than the very outgoing ones... However, shyness is naturally occurring in humans and is used as a precautionary measure, in terms of psychology. Ofcourse, shyness can completely disintengrate into a complete lack of embarrassment in any type of situation, which leads to "players", but shyness can also develop into social anxiety and panic attacks, which means that no matter how much you get to know the guy, he never fully gains your trust because he is scares.
Anyways, guys that are not shy usually get more girls and thus they value relationships less. A shy guy will hang on to the girl. But remember, a "shy" guy is someone who is, more or less, the average guy and is not some kind of strange, un-interesting dude. Do NOT go for someone who has complete social phobia, though.
2007-01-23 14:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just general information that any halfway decent person should know. Apply and enjoy.
Steps
1.Take the time a find a good man, enlisting the help of family or friends.
2.Take the time to get to know this person in a non romantic relationhip.
3.Build a relationship on trust, honesty, and respect.
4.Start off by being faithful to your new-found mate.
5.Take time to talk things over. Be honest and direct, even in matters of jealousy.
6.Always make your mate, spouse, or domestic other feel they are the most important thing in your life.
7.Set aside time for each other, and keep your relationship issues between between yourselves, in private discussion. The whole world does not need to know if you are having issues.
8.Enjoy kisses on a regular basis, once you reach that stage
Tips
•If you or your "partner" have a history of cheating, seek professional counseling for one or in couples format.
•If you or your partner are extremely beautiful and attract a lot of attention from others, discuss this openly.
•The best defense against most temptations is to be satisifed. This may mean exploring "unusual" or "freaky" lifestyles or sexual styles with your partner so that curiousities are satisfied.
•The second best defense against temptations is to be secure in yourself.
Warnings
•If your mate cheats or continues to cheat, leave. Once a cheater, (almost) always a cheater.
2007-01-23 14:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Christine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should go out with them for a long time then become committed. I guarantee if you go on many dates you can easily weed out which guys will be honest and committed to you. Sad to say but most guys dont lie and cheat its girls that are attracted to these guys. The guys that don't lie or cheat are "too nice", your friends that you dont want to go out when you know he likes you, or some other excuse girls make up to avoid dating a decent guy.
2007-01-23 14:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by jason j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want an honest answer to that? .. men do cheat and lie cos of how they see d girl, i mean if they have observe d woman's attitude or personality that is bad, not pleasing and .. woman that is cheap-like & not d serious type for them they cheat and find another. they want serious one that is however decent, don't smoke nor drink, do have brains somehow, and most especially men always want to be challenged in a way that they'll be d one hu do this, do that for d relationship. unlike, for example d girl is so obssesed or let's say inlove with their man and they are d one always running after them, they get annoyed! i have my boyfriend and we are turning 2years 2geder now, i see to it that he loves me more that i do so i'm still protecting myself, and i make things that i know he will be proud of.. we're living in a long distance relationship and yet, he don't cheat and lie to me. it's also important in a relationship that you both love each other. you give, but still you have to take. know what i mean? in short, BE WISE! and maybe you also have to ask yourself if you really have to change something in you.
2007-01-23 14:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by "13bLackrose" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if "a majority of guys" do any one thing or not, but here's something to think about:
There are many, many different kinds of guys in the world - if you end up finding yourself attracted to the same kind of guys over and over, then it might be you, not the guys.
2007-01-23 14:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by tomorrowsconsonant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sis, mom says get off the internet....she needs to check her email.
2007-01-23 14:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by Skeezix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men who don't cheat 5%
men who don't lie 0.000000001%
living alone and never having to hear any man's bullsh** PRICELESS
2007-01-23 14:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jay Jay 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd say 30% do.
2007-01-24 04:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋