Help, My freinds have all left me.
Okay, they all left me because I desided to go out with girl whom everybody calls a witch. But she is really sweet and I really like her.
My best friend said either I dump my girl or he's never speaking to me again. Almost all of my other friends feel the same way. They say they don't like being near her and it makes them look bad. Is it my choice or their attutides? What should I do??
2007-01-23 13:52:40 · 26 answers · asked by duhaust00 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm on the same situation. I say u do what u feel is right. Personally, i picked my boyfriend and i'm very happy. Your friends will get over it and if they don't then they aren't real friends
2007-01-23 13:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by ***Suga lips*** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo!!!! What you need to think about is..... A best friend is someone who wants you to be happy in anything or anyone you decide to be involved with or in, RIGHT?!? so when a "supposed" best friend and friends tell you to chose between a feeling in your heart that makes you happy, and actually has nothing to do with them,and them not being your friends if you don't dump this person, who you really like. They were never your friends to begin with... So tell your "friends" that if they don't like who you have feelings for and really like the person this girl is, then you don't need there friendship. Let me tell you... These are the times that you really find out who your true friends are. Follow your heart .
2007-01-23 22:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by renee l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend will stand by you no matter what!!! Ask your friends if they would like to be treated as they are treating the girl and you? It is your choice. tell them if they don't want to be near the girl you will see her when they are not around. Ask them how it makes them look bad? Tell them we all make mistakes in our life and we all would like to be forgiven and given the help we need to change and not make the same mistakes again. tell them it would be nice if they could be a little more understanding of someone elses and the gossip there is about them.
2007-01-23 22:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't do well with ultimatums. I believe that I must follow my own heart and choose my own company, and not let others decide who I should be with. However, if all of my friends didn't want to be around someone, I'd have to take a closer look at that person to make sure that I wasn't missing something. That's what I would do. What you do is up to you. Good luck in whatever you choose.
2007-01-23 21:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, what are your friends all fours years old and under? Talk about selfish babies! If they are truly serious, they are a bunch of shallow people, and you should slap your self silly for knowing such people like that! Seems like this girl came along just in time, time enough to prove to you -that you have no real friends in that crowd, and you needed a change of so called friends! I'd say your "gut" feeling about this girl is right!!!!
2007-01-23 22:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to learn this big lesson in life---always do what is right for you. Live your life your way. Life is choices and we all make our own choices---not what others think you should do. I don't know this girl you date but the ages sound young and I figure you will date plenty of others as time goes on. Your friends will always be there and if they hold a grudge--they aren't really friends of yours. Do what you want to do bro---just always be nice, be cool, be your own man.
2007-01-23 22:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoah buddy. Do you mean because she's a witch as is practicing witchcraft? Cause if they wont hang out with you bcause shes a witch then Ill go punch them in the face for you. Not only do you not need friends like that, you don't need them abandoning you because you chose to date a girl with a different religion. And if you meant witch as in ***** then they still wouldn't be very good friends and should be punched in the face anyways. If you leave your friends for a girl thats messed up. But if they leave you because they don't agree with who you date then thats crap and you don't need them. Im serious. Have a conversation with them and agree to make time with them that doesn't evolve this "witch". And do me a favor, if they aren't datting her because she [ractices witchcraft, kick em where it hurts.
2007-01-23 21:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mirror 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, did you choose the wrong friends or what! Why would they call her a witch? Ask them why they don't like her. If its a really lame excuse and they're just being childish, leave them. One girl who likes you and doesnt bag your desisions is a whole lot better than a pack of friends who do bag your descisions. and imagine how this "witch" feels about all this!!!
2007-01-23 21:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by mizbritt17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they really friends?
Take a good long look at your girl. Any of the things they say seem real and she just faking sweetness? Or is it that your friends just spouting sh*t?
Seriously, if your girl is real and you love her, you're friends shouldn't force you to dump her.
And they shouldn't be abandoning you in the first place if they were REAL friends. Sounds like they were hanging with you just for social status.
2007-01-23 21:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by sir_camm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some jerks for friends. If being with this girl makes you happy then they should respect that. I say dump the loser friends and go out with the girl. She'll be a much better friend.
2007-01-23 21:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by Darktania 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋